My mind has been focused on work a lot lately. That's probably because in seven of our eight adult children's households, someone has been looking for a new job! Most of us have a list of checkboxes when it comes to what we do and where. We hope to find something that is challenging but not overwhelming, meaningful but not pressured, ethical but not boring, creative but not unstable, enjoyable but pays enough to take care of our needs -- and at least some of our wants. And, we want to work with other people who are competent but not competitive, friendly but not intrusive, flexible but not unpredictable and sociable but not dramatic. But what if work is more…