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October 15, 2012 | Volume 87, Number 25

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photo: dria and Kevin Hogan are members of St. Edward, Richmond.
Adria and Kevin Hogan are members of St. Edward, Richmond.

The Vocation of Marriage

When the Catholic Church teaches that marriage is a Christian vocation, it is saying that the couple’s relationship is more than simply their choice to enter a union which is a social and legal institution.

In addition to these things, marriage involves a call from God and a response from two people who promise to build, with the help of divine grace, a lifelong, intimate and sacramental partnership of love and life.

The Second Vatican Council teaches that “all Christians in whatever state or walk of life are called to the fullness of Christian life and to the perfection of charity” (Constitution on the Church, n. 40).

The call to marriage is a particular way of living the universal call to holiness given to every Christian in the Sacrament of Baptism. The call to priesthood, or to the vowed religious life, or to the single life are other Christian vocations.

All of them are equal, though in different ways, and are a response to the Lord who says, “Follow me.”

The call to love is “the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being.” In the vocation of marriage — something which “is written in the very nature of man and woman,” we see that “the love of husband and wife becomes an image of the absolute and unfailing love with which God loves” (no’s. 1603 and 1604).

A vocation is a personal call. It is offered freely and must be accepted freely. Attraction to a certain way of life or to a specific person can be a good sign of being called.

This is the second article in a series of 7 submitted by the Center for Marriage, Family and Life of the Diocese of Richmond. Kevin and Adria Hogan, members of St. Edward Parish in Richmond, are active in Engaged Encounter, a weekend retreat program for engaged couples planning to marry in the Catholic Church.Most often a person comes to recognize and accept a vocation gradually. This process, sometimes called discernment, is an opportunity for growth. It can be helped by prayer and guidance from trusted mentors, friends and family.

However, what begins as attraction must deepen into conviction and commitment. Those who are called to the married life should be ready to learn what their vocation means and to acquire the virtues and skills needed for a happy and holy marriage.

The vocation to marriage is a call to a life of holiness and service within the couple’s own relationship and in their family.

As a particular way of following the Lord, this vocation also challenges a couple to live their marriage in a way that expresses God’s truth and love in the world.

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