Commentary – June 19, 2017
— By Father John Catoir, syndicated columnist with Catholic News Service
Rejoicing always is possible
Having just gone through Lent and Easter, we’ve seen the stark reality of the cross followed by the glorious manifestation of the resurrection.
We are now living in the joyful season of Easter. But I ask you, is it realistic to ask anyone to be joyful in this crazy world of ours?
The answer is a definite YES!
There will always be crosses, and yet we are called to live joyfully through all the drudgery and pain of life.
We all suffer physical and emotional pain of one kind or another: our bodies ache, people disappoint, financial woes engender fear, the possibility of war persists, but despite this, we are still called to live joyfully.
St. Paul, who suffered mightily in his day, urged us to rejoice always because of the knowledge of God’s love.
How do we know that God loves us? We know it on faith.
Jesus Christ told us to call God “Our Father.” Doesn’t every father want his children to be happy?
That’s why St. Paul said, “Rejoice always, and be grateful in all circumstances, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus,” (I Cor. 5: 16).
He took this magnificent idea from Jesus, who at the last supper said, “I have told you all these things that my joy may be in you, and your joy may be complete,” (John 15:11).
I appeal to Pope John Paul II for confirmation. He wrote, “Christ came to bring joy, joy to children, joy to parents, joy to families and friends, joy to workers and scholars, joy to the sick and elderly, joy to all humanity. In a true sense joy is the keynote message and the recurring motif of the Gospels – Go therefore and become messengers of joy.”
Our response ought to be, “Yes I will Lord. I will be glad, and filled with joy, because of you.” (Psalm 9:2)
Recently Bishop Robert Barron wrote about the strict moral code that the Church proclaims in matters of sexuality.
Many Catholics say the Church should scale back on these rigid standards, but Christ calls us higher. Jesus said, “Be ye perfect.”- Matt. 5:48.
We all know the heartbreak and suffering that comes from unbridled sexuality. Mediocrity and irresponsibility always lead to misery and death.
Of course, we are weak and sinful. Of course, we need Divine mercy just to survive spiritually from day to day, but we also need Christian ideals that call us to nobility and holiness. Mediocrity is not an option.
“Rejoice always,” is a call to perfection. We need to accept spiritual joy as a realistic goal.
Commentary – June 5, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Father Flanagan and Boys Town
Father Edward Flanagan, the Irish-born priest who founded Boys Town in Nebraska, is pictured in an undated photo. The Vatican has taken a key step forward in the priest’s sainthood cause, local officials said May 15. (CNS photo/courtesy Boys Town)
Probably few people under the age of 30 have any sense of the role orphanages played in American society until the 1950s when that system of child protection began to be phased out.
Children were placed in buildings known as orphanages when their parents or other family members were unable to care for them, largely because of financial issues.
For more than half a century the Diocese of Richmond had St. Vincent’s Home for Boys in Roanoke. It was established by St. Andrew’s Parish on March 1, 1893, and staffed by the Sisters of Charity of Nazareth, Kentucky.
Many of the boys grew up to be lawyers and business executives and credited St. Vincent’s with the proper guidance to put them on the right path.
Perhaps the one man best known for his charitable work in orphanages is the late Father Edward J. Flanagan.
Father Flanagan was the founder of Boys Town in Omaha. His story and that of Boys Town was made into a movie in 1938 which starred Spencer Tracy as the kind-hearted but no-nonsense priest.
The priest started out with a rented house for five boys who needed a home. It grew to become a national treasure which had a main campus of group homes for both boys and girls, a grade school and high school and a post office.
The Catholic Archdiocese of Omaha took up the cause for Father Flanagan to be declared a saint in 2012. At that time Archbishop George Lucas declared him to be a “Servant of God.”
On May 15 the Vatican’s Congregation for Saints’ Causes found that Omaha’s three-year investigation into Father Flanagan’s life was thorough and without error, and includes evidence of a reputation for sanctity. The archdiocese had sent its findings to the Vatican in 2015.
“This cause is moving forward toward the next step, which we pray will move Servant of God Flanagan’s status to that of ‘venerable,’” said Steven Wolf, president of the Father Flanagan League, at a news conference.
The Vatican will continue its investigation looking for signs of heroic virtue, which could lead to the title “venerable.”
The steps for sainthood will include a miracle attributed to the intercession of Father Flanagan required for beatification, and a second miracle for sainthood.
Archbishop Lucas said the effort is in God’s hands, and prayers and devotions to Father Flanagan will help further the cause.
We can always use more saints in our world. Looking at their life and what motivated them to achieve what they did for God’s people can spur us on to be saints in our day.
Commentary – May 22, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Memorial Day recalls sacrifices
As Americans prepare to celebrate Memorial Day next week, it should be a time to remember all the valiant soldiers who gave the ultimate sacrifice — their lives — so the United States of America could live in freedom.
Memorial Day was originally celebrated as a national holiday on May 30, no matter what day of the week it occurred. But since 1971 it has been celebrated on the last Monday of May, allowing most workers and students to have a three-day holiday.
On a visit to France last fall I was in Normandy, on France’s northwest coast. Our group visited the American Cemetery and then got on a bus to head to the coast where American soldiers landed on what became known as D-Day, the sixth of June. It was an emotiuonal visit. We saw the vast rows of granite tombstones which each bore a name of the soldier who died with the name of their home state and date of birth and death.
But what really had an impact on me was learning that many of these fallen soldiers who had come to Europe to fight the enemy had seldom been away from their small towns in Iowa and Nebraska when they were put in harm’s way. For some it was their first time away from home and their letters poignantly told their loved ones how much they missed them.
Many did not make it home and their tombstones are grim reminders of their sacrifice. The Normandy American Cemetery, on land donated by the French government, has 9,387 burials. It is one of 14 permanent Wordl War II military cemeteries on foreign soil.
With so much to see at the American cemetery with the various exhibits, I took time to view a film in which you could see and hear the stories of these soldiers. Their wives, parents or brothers and sisters read letters from their loved one. These letters, all hand written, were shown on the screen along with a photo of the soldier who had written them.
For most of the soldiers, it was a time to write their mother and father of what life was like in the Army. They wanted to be remembered to all the folks back home and they wanted to hear what was happening in the family.
They asked questions which probably were written to keep that connection back home alive despite the hidden dangers in which they found themselves. They were risking their lives as they witnessed the horrors of war.
These soldiers missed the life they had back on the farm or in the family store. They looked forward to the war being over and resuming their life. They would never be the same again.
What made this film so poignant and brought tears to my eyes were that the words heard on the screen were often the last words these men ever wrote. Death on the battlefield or in an Army hospital soon followed.
Let us remember the sacrifices our military veterans made as we celebrate Memorial Day — not only during World War II, but in subsequent wars.
Parents, please tell your children what Memorial Day means.
Commentary – May 8, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Will it be a fun ride?
As the Catholic lay faithful of the Diocese of Richmond rejoice as they await the ordination of three new priests June 3 at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart, we have received word that a North Carolina woman claims to be ordained a Catholic priest.
But before anyone jumps up and down perhaps shaking their head in dismay (or probably some in joyful celebration), the ordination ceremony was illicit and Abigail Eltzroth’s “ordination” is not in any way recognized by the Catholic Church.
The illicit ceremony took place April 30 at the Jubilee Community in Asheville, N.C., with Bridget Mary Meehan as “presiding bishop” as part of the rebel group which calls itself the Association of Roman Catholic Women Priests.
The Jubilee Community in Asheville describes its Sunday services as celebrating “…community…diversity…Creation Spirituality.”
But one wonders why Ms. Eltzroth wants to be a Catholic priest in the first place. The 64-year-old woman, who is divorced and the mother of two adult children, grew up in the Presbyterian Church. She entered the Catholic Church when she was in her 50s.
Presumably, Ms. Eltzworth was aware at that time that the Catholic Church ordains only celibate and single men. While she says that Catholicism is “the tradition that we all look to and everybody looks to what the pope and the Catholic leaders are doing,” she apparently feels no loyalty to Catholic Church tradition.
She should not be surprised that she received no response from Bishop Peter Jugis of Charlotte after she sent him an invitation to attend the ceremony.
David Hains, spokesman for the Catholic Diocese of Charlotte, was asked by the media for comment. “I hope that Catholics in the diocese will understand that it would be sinful to receive a fake sacrament from a woman priest and that includes attending a fake Mass,” he said.
Prior to the April 30 ceremony, Ms. Eltzroth has been all over the map regarding previous job titles. Her résumé lists being a jail chaplain in Saginaw, Mich., pastoral associate on the Fort Peck Indian Reservation in Montana, and pastor of two churches in Nebraska.
She seems excited about her new journey.
“One of my many pre-ordination good wishes was ‘Get ready for a fun ride!,’” she says.
It may prove to be a fun ride for Ms. Eltzroth, but she likely will not have many followers. She has no congregation in which to minister. She says she wants to form a Catholic worship community in Asheville.
When reporters asked Pope Francis last year about the Church’s stance on only ordaining men to the priesthood, he replied that the Church’s position would likely last forever.
The Diocese of Richmond is blessed to have 30 men in priestly formation. Three will be ordained transitional deacons on May 20 in addition to the three who will be ordained priests June 3.
This is something to celebrate!
Commentary – April 24, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Farewell, faithful servant
Shortly before Father David Nott entered priestly formation for the Diocese of Richmond, I recalled that I had met him briefly at St. John Parish in Waynesboro when I had accompanied Bishop Walter F. Sullivan for a transitional deacon ordination in the spring of 1986.
At that time then layman David Nott had been working as an organist and had expressed interest in becoming a Catholic priest to Father James Kauffmann, then pastor of the Waynesboro parish. He had come to the rectory before Sunday Mass so he could meet Bishop Sullivan.
Mary Kauffmann, Father Kauffman’s aunt who lived in Richmond and was present in the rectory gathering, was apparently impressed with Mr. Nott and clearly expressed her thoughts with her nephew.
“Jimmy,” his aunt said, “who is that young man? He has priest written all over him.”
“Mary, he’s not even a Catholic,” Father Kauffmann said.
“Well, we can work that out” was his aunt’s response.
Father Kauffmann told The Catholic Virginian that he first met David Nott when he was assisting at an interfaith wedding at Trinity Episcopal Church in Staunton. The future Father Nott was then organist at the wedding at Trinity while working as an organ builder.
He invited him to Mass at St. John’s in Waynesboro. From that point on the future priest became fully immersed in the Catholic Church.
“I got him involved in the life of the Church as a cantor and organist at the Saturday vigil Mass,” Father Kauffmann said. “The people really liked him.”
Father Nott enrolled in St. John’s RCIA where he was received into the Church the following Easter.
Father Nott was ordained a priest on June 26, 1993 along with Father Michael Renninger, current pastor of St. Mary Parish in Richmond, at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart.
Since his ordination now more than 23 years ago, Father Nott has served the Catholic lay faithful with a quiet dignity and reverence which came from his strong belief in Catholic Church teachings. His posture would slightly change when he wanted to give emphasis to a point he was making. He would lower and then raise his head while lifting his right hand when he wanted to emphasize something he felt was particularly important.
He never wavered in his love for Christ and wanted to share that love with others who had the privilege of being present when he celebrated Mass. He played by the rules.
Father Nott was also a teacher. He explained why certain elements were included in the Mass at different times during the Church calendar. While most of us know about what happens during Lent and Advent, Father Nott provided additional insight into why the Church did what it did.
To him, the Pastoral Center chapel was a sacred space—as it should be. He discouraged idle chitchat before Mass. He omitted the kiss of peace during Mass, but never frowned when worshippers responded with a handshake or hug.
God called Father Nott to his heavenly home a few minutes past midnight on Easter Sunday. We can only imagine the joy he felt when he met the Lord face to face.
Commentary – April 10, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Georgetown seeks forgiveness
Georgetown University officials last year officially condemned slavery practiced by their Jesuit priests decades before the Emancipation Proclamation. Now it has kept its promise to rename campus buildings which will honor a slave and a black teacher.
The first building had been originally named after Father Thomas Mulledy, president of Georgetown who authorized the sale of 272 men, women and children in 1838. The second was named after Father William McSherry, an active participant in the 1838 transaction and subsequent other sales of slaves.
It is almost inconceivable that it took close to 200 years before university action was taken to address the issue of slavery — the sale of human beings to provide cheap farm labor. The reason given for the sale was to reduce the university’s debt after construction of the first building. What makes the story even more horrendous is that there is proof that Jesuit priests had baptized some of the slaves it sold.
The upcoming ceremony marking the renaming of the two buildings comes after protests last November when word of the slavery sales were revealed.
The situation became serious when 250 Georgetown students staged a protest outside the building which houses the office of university president John DeGioia. They camped outside on steps bringing their laptops and eating pizza slices which had been brought in by sympathetic alumni and some professors.
There will be a Mass of Reconciliation focusing on remembrance, contrition and hope on Tuesday, April 18 before the dedication of the renamed buildings. It will be celebrated by Jesuit clergy and priests of the Archdiocese of Washington on the day after the District of Columbia normally celebates Emancipation Day. The event recognizes the emancipation of slaves in the nation’s capital in 1862.
Mulledy Hall will be renamed after Isaac Hawkins, the first enslaved person listed in the sale documents. McSherry Hall will be named after Anne Marie Becraft, a teacher and free woman of color who established one of the first schools for black girls in the District of Columbia. She later joined the Oblate Sisters of Providence in Baltimore.
“There were two evils that took place,” said Georgetown President DeGioia in September 2016. “The sale of slaves and the breakup of families.”
Slavery was prevalent in the South and in Washington, D.C. long before the Emancipation Proclamation. Some have suggested that Georgetown provide 272 full scholarships to African American students who are descendants of slaves.
Well-meaning Christians must seek forgiveness as well as forgive others as long as they live. The upcoming ceremony at Georgetown right after Easter is a step in that direction.
Commentary – March 27, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Christian unity—at last
St. Patrick is depicted in a stained-glass window at St. Aloysius Church in Great Neck, N.Y. Archbishop Eamon Martin of Armagh, Northern Ireland, said that “as Irish people, we cannot think of St. Patrick without acknowledging the enormous humanitarian and pastoral challenges facing growing numbers of people who find themselves displaced and without status in our world.” (CNS photo/Gregory A. Shemitz)
After centuries of bitter animosity which sometimes erupted into violence, there was a huge symbol of not only tolerance, but harmony between Catholics and Protestants in Northern Ireland in celebration of St. Patrick’s Day.
This act of Christian unity happened in Armagh on the eve of St. Patrick’s Day when Archbishop Eamon Martin, leader of the Catholic Church in all of Ireland, and Anglican Archbishop Richard Clarke of Armagh gathered members of their flock at each other’s Cathedral.
Ironically, both the Catholic cathedral and Church of Ireland cathedral are named in honor of St. Patrick.
A peaceful vigil walk between the two cathedrals, both illuminated in green, began at the Church of Ireland (Anglican) cathedral where participants were gathered in prayer. Archbishop Clarke led the procession via a torchlight to the Catholic cathedral where Archbishop Martin welcomed them.
The prayerful procession including Catholics and Protestants together in prayer was symbolic of the mission of St. Patrick who is credited with bringing Christian unity to Ireland.
He came as a slave of human traffickers, a point made by both archbishops.
Catholic Archbishop Martin, president of the Irish Catholic Bishops’ Conference, used the occasion to call attention to the plight of migrants, especially the estimated 50,000 Irish people who are living in the United States and considered illegal immigrants.
“As Irish people, we cannot think of Patrick without acknowledging the enormous humanitarian and pastoral challenges facing growing numbers of people who find themselves displaced and without status in our world,” he said.
“I invite you to pray for refugees and for all displaced families at this time and, wherever you are, to encourage the hospitality and welcome for which we Irish are famous the world over,” the archbishop said.
Anglican Archbishop Clarke also spoke of the plight of refugees and their connection to St. Patrick.
He said that he had “become increasingly aware that Patrick was a migrant and, on his first visit to Ireland, an unwilling one.”
The joyful celebration of one’s Christian faith among Catholics and Protestants was much on Archbishop Clarke’s mind.
“A St. Patrick’s Day that is worthy of the name should join us together in thanking God for all those who have given us our individual understanding of the Christian faith,” he said.
“For me, one of the joys of Patrick’s Day — particularly in Armagh — is the sense of the day uniting people.”
Commentary – March 13, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Our Lenten journey
With the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday, Christians are encouraged to begin looking more seriously into their faith journey with Christ.
But often it is easier said than done. Right now many are filled with zeal but that often wanes when we realize how hard it is.
As a help to Catholics during Lent, Bishop David L. Ricken of Green Bay has compiled a list of “Ten Things to Remember” which is posted on the website of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops.
We are presenting the 10 points with the hope that those who read this commentary will be able to apply at least some of them to how we live our daily life.
1. “Remember the formula.” For Lent, the Church slogan can be easily seen as prayer, fasting and almsgiving. These are three things we should try to work on.
2. “Time for prayer.” We should see the 40 days of Lent as being on a 40-day journey in which we grow closer to God and “be changed by the encounter with Him.”
3. “Time to fast.” We are asked to do this on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday and abstain from meat on the other Fridays of Lent. Fasting should be seen as a form of penance meant to direct us away from sin and toward Christ.
4. “Time to work on discipline.” We should set a time to practice good deeds. Visit a friend who is homebound or lonely. Set aside 15 minutes for spiritual reading. Participate in the Stations of the Cross which many parishes have during Friday nights of Lent.
5. “Dying to Self.” Give up the urge to gossip. Let go of bitter feelings toward someone who hurt us. Bury the hatchet. Again, this is easier said than done.
6. “Don’t do too much.” Even though we might have an initial spark of zeal to do the right things, “it is best to keep it simple and focused… Don’t try to crank it all in one Lent,” Bishop Ricken says.
7. “Remember our weakness.” While we really are sincere about our Lenten goals, many of us will have difficulty keeping them. When we fast, we feel pangs of hunger. It is tempting to grab a cracker or eat some fruit. Bishop Ricken says “recognizing how helpless we are makes us seek God’s help with renewed urgency and sincerity.”
8. “Be patient with yourself.” Don’t start cussing and feel frustrated when you fail at one of your Lenten goals. God wants us to be patient and see ourselves “as He does with unconditional love.”
9. “Reach out in charity.” Almsgiving means outreach to others and “helping them without question as a way of sharing the experience of God’s unconditional love.” 10. “Learn to love like Christ.” See your Lenten journey as being with Christ who died on the cross so we might have eternal life. We will never have to endure anything as painful as the bloody sacrifice He made.
Bishop Ricken says: “Lent is a journey through the desert to the foot of the cross on Good Friday. . . join in his suffering and learn to love like Him.”
Commentary – February 27, 2017
Virginia Catholic Bishops scorn Governor ’s veto
For the second consecutive year, Gov. Terry McAuliffe has demonstrated his unwavering commitment to the nation’s largest abortion provider—at the expense of comprehensive health care for women. On Feb. 21 Gov. McAuliffe vetoed HB 2264, which would have redirected state tax dollars away from Planned Parenthood and the abortion industry, and toward community health centers that provide primary care to women and their families. This legislation had been introduced by Del. Ben Cline, R- Rockbridge.
Surrounded by Planned Parenthood supporters at a veto ceremony outside the Governor’s Mansion that morning, Gov. McAuliffe said his actions protected the rights and dignity of Virginia women—when, in fact, his actions harm the dignity of the women deceived by the multi-billion dollar abortion industry as well as the tiniest females, those still in the womb whose lives are brutally eliminated by abortion.
Despite its deceptive talking points about caring for women’s health, Planned Parenthood performs less than 2% of women’s cancer screenings nationwide, and provides no mammograms1 whatsoever. It offers, instead, the opposite of health care—conducting almost 17 times more abortions than birth-oriented services and aborting 160 children for every 1 child it refers for adoption. Planned Parenthood2 is responsible for nearly 900 abortions every day, a third of all abortions in the U.S. And yet, despite the fact that most Americans don’t want their tax dollars to pay for other people’s abortions, Planned Parenthood received half-a-billion dollars in taxpayer funding in its most recently reported fiscal year. It received this money despite extensive evidence that it illegally profited from the transfer of fetal tissue harvested during abortions.
The Virginia Catholic Conference upholds the timeless truth that every human being, born and unborn, has an equal right to life. The Conference finds Gov. McAuliffe’s pride in protecting an organization that destroys life and harms women and their families deeply offensive. We will continue to fight for the day when Virginia law protects all human life, at every stage of development, from conception until natural death.
(The Virginia Catholic Conference represents the public policy interests of Virginia’s Catholic bishops and their two dioceses.)
Commentary – February 13, 2017
— By Steve Neill, Of The Catholic Virginian
Gone But Not Forgotten
While many younger Americans probably never heard of the Dough Boys, the Knights of Columbus of Council 395 in Richmond are preserving a bronze plaque honoring the memory of 452 soldiers who served in World War I.
The names of the 452 soldiers are engraved on the large plaque which is five feet wide and three feet and eight inches tall. All of them were members of the Knights of Columbus Council 395 who were deployed to battlefields in Europe to fight “the war to end all wars.”
The plaque hung for many decades at the old Knights of Columbus meeting place next to historic St. Peter’s Catholic Church a block from the Virginia Capitol. That building, known as the McGill Catholic Union, was later razed and Council 395 built a new building known as the Columbian Center in 1969 on Pump Road in western Henrico County.
Jump forward 40-plus years and the original Columbian Center was torn down so a larger facility could be built. No one seems to know how it happened, but the plaque honoring the Dough Boys vanished.
It was only a few weeks ago that two parishioners from St. Michael’s Parish spotted what looked like an old plaque lying on the ground in a wooded area by an old shed on the Columbian Center grounds. They were taken aback, but knew there must be some significance to what they had uncovered.
“Something’s laying down on the ground near the shed,” Vincent Russo said to Ray Gargiulo.
After making their discovery, they contacted A.L. Grappone & Sons, a Richmond firm, to see if there was a way to clean up the weather-beaten plaque. The plaque was so heavy that a crane was needed to lift it to be taken to the Grappone workshop.
“I thought it was interesting to see the term ‘The World War,’” said Tony Grappone, who is doing the restoration. There was no thought at that time that there would be another world war less than 30 years later.
The Knights are now trying to locate families whose loved ones might be in the alphabetical listing of the soldiers’ names. The plaque will be rededicated in April.
Commentary – February 13, 2017
— By Richard Doerflinger
A Sense of Perspective
An earlier column discussed “being Catholic first” — how our moral vision should judge partisan positions, not vice versa.
Also essential for a Catholic view of politics is a sense of perspective, or “taking the long view.”
Let’s begin with what common sense tells us. Success and failure are equally aspects of human life.
“Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, sometimes it rains.”
Political victories and defeats are the most fleeting of all, especially in a democracy where key players are replaced every few years.
And the ultimate consequences of political acts may not be what we expect.
Take President Bill Clinton’s repeated vetoes of a ban on partial-birth abortion. Abortion advocates hailed his actions as a great victory.
But his long impasse with Congress kept this issue alive and kept before Americans the image of a developed child pulled backward from the womb and brutally killed.
Even “pro-choice” lawmakers like Senator Daniel Moynihan saw this as infanticide, and polls showed a clear majority of Americans identifying as “pro-life” for the first time in many years.
The next Congress and president enacted the law, which was upheld by the Supreme Court and remains in place today.
Or take the Supreme Court’s 1984 Grove City decision, narrowly interpreting federal laws against sex discrimination.
The backlash against this decision by liberals and some conservatives led to the Civil Rights Restoration Act of 1988, applying these protections to all departments of schools receiving federal funds.
The law also corrected a past misuse of sex discrimination laws to force institutions to support abortion.
The Catholic bishops’ conference helped develop the law and override a veto by President Reagan. This law, too, remains valid.
This doesn’t mean we should praise bad policy decisions because they might turn out well.
Rather, each setback led smart and dedicated people to take the long view, to consider how to take the lemons and make lemonade.
They didn’t waste much time announcing the end of the world, or alienating potential allies by their rhetoric, before getting to work.
This is a lesson for those who coined the slogan “Not My President” to exempt themselves from the decisions of a government with which they strongly disagree.
There are more constructive ways to persuade other Americans of one’s views, and those ways may even involve listening.
What does a Catholic perspective add to this?
Ours is the longest of long views. We should see things from the viewpoint of eternity.
Does this mean not taking issues seriously?
On the contrary: We know injustices like abortion, racism and disdain for the poor are not political footballs, but offenses against human beings made in the image and likeness of God.
People promoting these endanger their immortal souls. Such matters are of penultimate importance.
The only thing more important is that God judges us all, loves us all and commands us to love one another.
Some advocates for important issues do not understand this. For them, each victory is a triumph, each defeat an invitation to despair.
They push away friends as well as opponents, rejecting incremental progress as a form of betrayal.
They are prone to bitterness and early burnout. We Catholics deal with the most serious concerns on earth, but each of us plays only a humble role.
As St. Teresa of Kolkata said, “God does not require that we be successful, only that we be faithful.”
The ultimate victory — a victory over death itself — has already been achieved, by One who deserves our full devotion.
Oddly, people with this perspective may also be more effective in improving society.
(Richard Doerflinger worked for 36 years in the Secretariat of Pro-Life Activities of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. He writes from Washington state.)
Commentary – January 30, 2017
— By Dr. Gary S. Smith
Where’s Our Outrage?
After Katie Rich, a “Saturday Night Live” writer, tweeted last week that 10-year-old Barron Trump “will be this country’s first homeschool shooter,” she was widely lambasted on social media. Her inappropriate, insensitive remarks deserve to be widely denounced. No child should be subjected to such a tactless, demeaning attack in public or private.
It is appalling, however, that few Americans express similar outrage about the troubled and sometimes tragic circumstances in which millions of our precious children live. As Nelson Mandela argued, there is “no keener revelation of a society’s soul than the way in which it treats its children.” How are we treating our children? Not very well.
In the United States, 22 percent of children live in poverty. It’s much worse for minority children: 33 percent of Hispanic, 37 percent of Native American, and 39 percent of African-American children live in families whose income is below the poverty line. Moreover, 1.7 million households barely survive on a cash income of less than $2 a person a day, which is the kind of desperate poverty experienced by the indigent in developing nations. About 600,000 Americans are homeless, including one in 30 children.
That 14.7 million poor children and 6.5 million extremely poor children live in the United States, the Children’s Defense Fund argues, is a national disgrace. It is “unnecessary, costly and the greatest threat to our future national, economic and military security.” An African-American boy born in 2001 has a one in three chance of being incarcerated during his lifetime and a Latino boy born the same year has a one in six chance. The black infant mortality rate in the United States is higher than that of 65 nations including Ukraine, Malaysia, and Cuba.
Growing up in poverty has a very negative physical, intellectual, and psychological impact on children. Abundant research shows that the disadvantages poor children experience have many harmful life-long consequences. As pastor and educator Beth Lindsay Templeton argues, “poverty is more than a lack of money. It becomes a way of thinking, reacting and making decisions.” Wess Stafford, former CEO of Compassion International, maintains that “in daily life a lack of money” produces “a lack of options, which is perhaps a more accurate definition of poverty.”
Poverty affects how responsive children’s parents are to their needs, how much education they receive at home, the quality of children’s physical environment, the amount and type of food they eat, how frequently they change residences and schools, and their self-image and emotional well-being. The lack of proper nutrition between birth and age three often causes physical and intellectual impairment.
Anxiety, unhappiness, and dependency are common feelings among those who grow up in a destitute household. Poverty frequently leads to a lack of self-discipline and low self-esteem and reduces children’s trust and empathy. Destitute children often have feelings of hatred, anger, depression, and insecurity and view life as hopeless, pointless, and fruitless. This gloomy, pessimistic perspective of life prompts many of them to put forth little effort to get good grades, plan for the future, or improve their lives.
Many Americans do nothing to help indigent children, however, because poverty in the United States is often invisible. Most middle- and upper-class Americans encounter the indigent only when they see someone begging on the streets of a large city. They rarely interact with the poor who typically live in the inner city, mobile home parks on the edge of communities, dilapidated apartments scattered throughout cities and towns, or rural areas.
Despite living in a town of 8,000 in western Pennsylvania for more than three decades, I had little understanding of the nature or scope of my community’s poverty until my wife and I began working with an organization that helps local residents deal with financial emergencies. Five years later, I wonder how I could have been so blind.
In “A Path Appears,” Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn discuss the pathologies and problems that plague Breathitt County, Kentucky, in the heart of Appalachia. Strikingly, every problem they describe—the drug and alcohol abuse, dysfunctional families, school dropouts, difficulty finding jobs that pay livable wages, and hopelessness—is also present in our community. Even though you may have little contact with them, the poor undoubtedly live in your community or area.
Our experiences prompted my wife and I to write “Suffer the Children: What We Can Do to Improve the Lives of the World’s Impoverished Children.” It describes numerous things we can do to help destitute children in the United States and around the world. Let’s express the same indignation toward the deplorable circumstances in which millions of American children live as many have displayed toward Katie Rich’s tasteless tweet. Then, let’s work to make their lives better.
(Dr. Gary Scott Smith chairs the history department at Grove City College and is a fellow for faith and politics with The Center for Vision & Values.)
Commentary – January 30, 2017
— By Steve Neill
The March for Women
It is ironic that in their call for inclusion and celebration of diversity some groups deliberately exclude others they feel would be a hindrance to their cause.
This happened recently in the Women’s March on Washington Jan. 21, the day after the presidential inauguration.
A women’s pro-life group from Texas known as New Wave Feminists marched anyway even though organizers had removed their group as a march sponsor. Their participation in many ways was in sync with the goals of feminists, but their pro-life stance apparently jarred the March organizers who wanted to restrict groups to those who have a pro-choice message.
But to their surprise the pro-life group participants were warmly welcomed by other participants.
“We were prepared for confrontation and instead were supported by so many women,” Destiny Herndon-De La Rosa told Catholic News Service.
“I’m a pro-life feminist” was the message of one of their signs they held as they marched on the National Mall.
Some who participated in the rally were likely puzzled by what the sign’s message meant. But it sparked some positive comments.
“They kept coming up and telling us how glad they were that we were there and how, even though they didn’t necessarily agree on the abortion issue, they thought it wrong that we were removed as partners,” Ms. Herndon-De La Rosa said.
It is only right — and a principle of Christianity — that women should have the same respect and dignity of men.
Pro-life issues do not end with abortion. Pro-life issues include the call to abolish the death penalty and assisted suicide. Some say being pro-life means accompanying all who are on the journey from womb to tomb.
While organizers of the March for Women said the event was to “promote women’s equality and defend other marginalized groups,” some pro-life groups that wanted to participate in the march were either removed as official sponsors days before the march — or their application to be a sponsor was ignored.
Again, in emphasizing that the March for Women was to promote equality, respect and dignity for women, it appears that not “all women” were given that same respect.
One can only conclude that women organizers of the March feel that women calling for stricter laws to deter abortion are not wanted.
So much for inclusion and diversity.
Commentary – January 16, 2017
— By Steve Neill
Abortion hurts business?
It is no secret that abortion is legal in the United States even though the end result is the death of an innocent life.
Mothers who choose abortion over giving birth to their baby are likely to have regrets later on. This is demonstrated over and over again when these women—and often men who are the fathers—seek healing through Rachel’s Vineyard retreats.
Their regret is real. It hurts and seldom goes away, even after many years, these retreatants claim.
While all abortion is wrong, late-term abortions are particularly heinous because a baby’s life can be snuffed out even when he or she is a fully formed infant.
If that same baby was born and the mother chose the next day—or even an hour after birth—to kill her child, she would likely be charged with murder.
It is sad that Virginia Gov. Terry McAuliffe has stated— even before the Virginia General Assembly begins its 2017 session—that he will veto legislation which would outlaw late-term abortions.
One would also want to know what motivates a mother to wait so long before deciding to abort her baby. A baby in utero at even six months is fully formed and most likely could live outside the womb.
Doesn’t she realize that there are loving parents who would gladly adopt a baby and raise him or her? Abortion is the wrong choice.
Governor McAuliffe says he feels restrictions on abortion could have an effect on drawing new business interests to Virginia.
This does not sit well with Rev. Franklin Graham, a minister who is the son of longtime Christian evangelist Billy Graham.
“When we are worried more about our state image and making money than about protecting the lives of babies in their mother’s wombs, it’s obvious we have a big problem,” Rev. Graham wrote on Facebook Jan. 6 in response to McAuliffe’s statement.
The governor said he feels companies who might do business in Virginia would react negatively to anti-abortion legislation. Is abortion that much of an issue in deciding where to do business?
“I can’t sit back and have that sitting out there at the same time I’m traveling the globe recruiting businesses to Virginia,” McAuliffe said. “If there’s something that would be damaging toward business, and to our image around the country and the globe, I’ll veto it, you bet I will.”
The governor’s statement seems adamant enough. Perhaps he can change his mind.
If anyone questions that the number of late-term abortion is small, here is a cold fact from the Centers of Disease Control. There were at least 5,770 late-term abortions at or after 21 weeks of pregnancy in 2013 in the United States.
Another approximate 8,150 abortions took place between 18 weeks and 20 weeks, the CDC reports.
Virginians need to stand firm in support of the Pain-Capable Unborn Child Protection law.
Commentary – January 2, 2017
Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo poses with seminarians (in white albs) including the three men who were admitted to Candidacy for Holy Orders on December 18 at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart. The three men admitted into candidacy are from left to right next to Bishop Di Lorenzo : Nicholas Redmond, John Baab and James O’Reilly. Also pictured in the front row are Father Michael Boehling, Vicar for Vocations and Pastoral Services (far left); Msgr. Mark Richard Lane, Vicar General (second from left); Father Timothy Kuhneman, Vicar for Clergy, (second from right); and Msgr. Patrick Golden, Rector of the Cathedral, right. Bishop DiLorenzo joined the seminarians for lunch afterwards in the parish hall. (Photo by Conrad Ruble)
— By Steve Neill
Why do we do what we do?
Why do persons do what they do?
Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo posed that question as he prepared to introduce three young men from the diocese who each came forward individually as their name was called.
The occasion was part of the Rite of Admission to Candidacy on their journey toward being ordained a Catholic priest. It took place Dec. 18 at the 11 a.m. Mass at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart in Richmond.
The three men — John Richardson Baab, James Patrick O’Reilly and Nicholas Emile Redmond — are already in their fifth year of priestly formation and will be ordained to the transitional diaconate on May 18.
“Why do they bother to come forward?” Bishop DiLorenzo asked.
“Why do they inconvenience themselves?”
The answer to both questions lies in Jesus Christ and the desire of the three men to evangelize and tell others about salvation and eternal life which Christ offers.
Those men who become a Catholic priest today are doing something which is counter-intuitive, Bishop DiLorenzo suggested. One of the reasons is that increasing numbers of their peers choose no religious denomination as they run toward achieving what they consider the American Dream.
“Money, power and success” is what many young Americans choose, the Bishop asserted.
But back to the original question of why do people do what they do, he pointed again to Jesus who “saves us from sin and spiritual death.”
The three seminarians now admitted to candidacy for the priesthood are doing it for the same reasons of Jesus who gives compassionate care and love for all.
They have heard God’s call and answered his invitation. Those in the Cathedral congregation that Sunday were witnesses.
But sometimes the road will not be easy, Bishop DiLorenzo said. He pointed out that Jesus did not have it easy either on the road to Calvary and when he suffered death on the cross.
“Jesus had a painful death, to say the least,” Bishop DiLorenzo said. “Why did he choose the most inconvenient way?”
In a sense Mr. Baab, Mr. O’Reilly and Mr. Redmond are doing what other well-known patriotic Americans have done as they “inconvenience” themselves for a greater cause than their own comfort.
Bishop DiLorenzo cited George Washington, “a Virginia planter,” and Andrew Jackson, another American president. Both men, he said, had a love for their country and were true patriots.
In questioning the three candidates for priesthood, Bishop DiLorenzo asked them if “they are determined to complete their preparation necessary for receiving the sacrament of Holy Orders, as well as to prepare themselves in mind and spirit to give faithful service to the Church?”
On the fourth Sunday of Advent they answered yes. The prolonged applause they received from the assembly is a sign of our gratitude.
Commentary – December 19, 2016
— By Steve Neill
Pro-life Christian Witness
It is certainly heartening to learn that many of our fellow Christians who are black Americans have given public witness to their strong views that abortion is wrong.
This happened on Dec. 3 in front of a Planned Parenthood facility at 1225 4th St., N.E. in Washington when a large number of pro-life proponents signed a pledge card to provide support to mothers and fathers who choose life over abortion.
They did so at a Human Rights Prayer Rally which brought back memories of the commitment card that Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. asked civil rights supporters to sign in 1963.
Dr. Alveda King, his niece, was among those praying at the site from noon to 2 p.m.
The event was planned as a reaction to the 100th anniversary of Planned Parenthood which led to the 100 No More movement denouncing the goals of Planned Parenthood among which is access to abortion. It was particularly aimed at the African American community.
“Blacks make up not quite 13 percent of the U.S. population, but represent over 30 percent of all abortions,” said Dr. King. “Planned Parenthood has built a profitable enterprise largely on aborting black babies.”
“This is even more troubling when you consider that they receive over half a billion dollars a year from the federal government.”
When abortion becomes an issue in a political campaign and candidates adamantly refuse to support any restrictions on abortion, pro-life candidates are missing an opportunity which might be powerfully effective in gaining supporters.
All they would have to do is ask of their opponent “Can you describe just what abortion is and what is its effect?”
The pro-choice candidate would likely have a bewildered look and stare at the questioner like he or she was from outer space. The answer would be “termination of pregnancy” while sneering at the questioner and hope listeners would also show their disdain.
But let’s pursue this a little further. Why does the pregnancy have to “be terminated?” Ask the question.
Anyone has to assume that if anything is ended, a baby is involved and his or her beating heart is stopped by abortion. What else could it mean?
The Knights of Columbus are to be congratulated for deterring abortion through purchasing ultrasound machines which show mothers a visual image of their unborn baby. Close to 90 percent of the women who visit crisis pregancy centers and see that ultrasound image decide to bring their baby to term.
Now that is pro-life!
Commentary – December 5, 2016
— By Mary McGinley
(Mary McGinley is a blogger writing “The Malleable Road: Reflections on the bends, turns and dead ends of life by a Catholic millennial” which can be read at malleable road.blogspot.com.)
Goodbye, Year of Mercy
As the Year of Mercy comes to a close, Catholics across the world have celebrated the feast of Christ the King and are now lighting Advent candles.
This particular moment in the liturgical year – the transition from one cycle to another, from end to beginning – more than ever puts before believers the conviction of reliance on God.
Last Sunday Christians declared Jesus as King of the Universe, “before all things, and in him all things hold together, that in all things he himself might be preeminent.”
Blasting organs and joyful alleluias filled the air and the grandeur of Christianity reigned.
Yet during the Sundays of Advent the same congregations will gather in comparatively quiet churches, with no Gloria sung. We now await Jesus, hope for a savior – a king – to come, rather than rejoicing that we have been “delivered out of darkness and transferred into his kingdom.”
We are suddenly in darkness – lighting candles one by one each week, the light growing stronger in anticipation, preparing for Christ to come, the “great light.”
There is much comfort to be found in the liturgical year, for unlike a calendar year where one heads blindly into the new year hoping for good things – for health, wealth, an end to war, poverty, and starvation – the liturgical year brings, cycle after cycle, the fullness of Christ into the world.
The liturgical year accompanies us through our calendar year to reinforce that regardless of what lies ahead, Christ is there, and He has already conquered death and sin, which is precisely why time is measured AD, The Year of Our Lord.
He always reigns.
The swift shift the end of November brings reminds Christians that while times will come when it seems God is not there, and darkness and cold dominate the earth, they must look to the light and remember that in fact God is there.
Always and everywhere. He has come and He is coming again.
He comes each Sunday (and weekday) in the Eucharist. His spirit dwells on Earth and we are never alone.
Those four little candles progressively lit throughout Advent are a symbol that light does and will overcome the darkness.
The journey through life is not always sunshine and butterflies, and God knew that first hand. In the flesh, He suffered upon the cross.
He knows pain but greater than that, He knows joy. He is joy.
May we all remember this as we head into what may be a tumultuous year ahead, and may we remember through the times of darkness to light our candles, and remember that Christ is King.
Commentary – November 21, 2016
— Archbishop Joseph E. Kurtz
(Archbishop Joseph E. Kurtz of the Archdiocese of Louisville is president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. His statement was released the day after the Nov. 8 national election)
Uniting for the common good
The American people have made their decision on the next President of the United States, members of Congress as well as state and local officials.
I congratulate Mr. Trump and everyone elected yesterday (Nov. 8). Now is the moment to move toward the responsibility of governing for the common good of all citizens.
Let us not see each other in the divisive light of Democrat or Republican or any other political party, but rather, let us see the face of Christ in our neighbors, especially the suffering or those with whom we may disagree.
We, as citizens and our elected representatives, would do well to remember the words of Pope Francis when he addressed the United States Congress last year “all political activity must serve and promote the good of the human person and be based on respect for his or her dignity.”
Yesterday, millions of Americans who are struggling to find economic opportunity for their families voted to be heard. Our response should be simple: we hear you.
The responsibility to help strengthen families belongs to each of us. The Bishops Conference looks forward to working with President-elect Trump to protect human life from its most vulnerable beginning to its natural end.
We will advocate for policies that offer opportunity to all people, of all faiths, in all walks of life. We are firm in our resolve that our brothers and sisters who are migrants and refugees can be humanely welcomed without sacrificing our security.
We will call attention to the violent persecution threatening our fellow Christians and people of other faiths around the world, especially in the Middle East.
And we will look for the new administration’s commitment to domestic religious liberty, ensuring people of faith remain free to proclaim and shape our lives around the truth about man and woman, and the unique bond of marriage that they can form.
Every election brings a new beginning. Some may wonder whether the country can reconcile, work together and fulfill the promise of a more perfect union. Through the hope Christ offers, I believe God will give us the strength to heal and unite.
Let us pray for leaders in public life that they may rise to the responsibilities entrusted to them with grace and courage.
And may all of us as Catholics help each other be faithful and joyful witnesses to the healing love of Jesus.
Commentary – November 7, 2016
—Kurt Elward, M. D., Parishioner of the Church of the Incarnation, Charlottesville
Virginia bishops on voting
I write to applaud our Bishops for a strong statement of faith and a call to maintain our Catholic principles in voting and in political action.
Their letter is far from “telling us what to do,” but rather reminding us of the principles—no, the truths—of our faith.
We cannot count on politicians to do this. There has been a history of both parties trying to claim as their turf our allegiance based on our faith, whether it be “family values” or “social teaching.”
When our pope speaks for the poor or the environment, he is lauded by some and trashed by others; only to have those same groups reverse themselves when he speaks God’s truth about abortion.
The bishops are particularly prescient and appropriate in their counsel to us this election year. In the face of two of the most damaged candidates in our history, we have to stand for our faith and the Lord’s teaching.
In their own words, we learn that Ms. Clinton’s chief advisor John Podesta assured his colleagues they could “rest easy” for he, Mr. Podesta, and his friends have already created organizations explicitly designed to infiltrate the Catholic Church with specific ideology. He writes: “We created Catholics in Alliance for the Common Good to organize for a moment like this. . . . Likewise Catholics United.”
This should be a frightening awakening for us all. I am in complete solidarity with our strong social justice movement within Catholicism but it pains me to see it manipulated and used for specific purposes to one party’s end.
Throughout history, politicians have tried to co-opt our church, our faith and our dedication to life at all stages and in all conditions.
These recent emails should make us aware that, not only are some people in major party leadership not allies of the Catholic Church, but harbor condescension and disrespect, and are working to be its saboteur. Yet these same people feel completely confident that Catholics can be taken advantage of and they will never pay a price at the polls. Will they?
I would recall to your readers the example of two shining stars of social justice.
Saint Theresa of Calcutta has written: “It is a poverty when someone else must die so I can live as I wish.”
And the great Dorothy Day, a servant of God, who could not be pigeonholed as a liberal, conservative, Democrat, Republican, or Libertarian, and chose to wear no other label than that of Christian. She was strongly anti-abortion and warned against “Holy Mother State”taking over the job of the body of Christ (with its own secular rules).
The wise counsel and teaching of our bishops may make us all uncomfortable—but Christ did not give people easy choices—only the better ones. He called his disciples—and calls us—to the greater and transcendent, while tasking us to act in the world today.
Commentary – October 24, 2016
—Stephen Previtera, The Catholic Virginian
Time for Reflection
The Catholic Virginian never has—and does not plan—to endorse any candidate for public office. We do, however, endorse meaningful dialogue, the understanding of where candidates stand on the issues, and the right of all citizens to exercise their voices in the democratic process.
The Catholic Church has made its positions abundantly clear on the dignity of the human person, the concept of traditional marriage as the building block of society, upholding the fundamental right to life, and loving our neighbor as ourselves. These are fundamental values based on the premise of human dignity.
In this election cycle, dignity is hard to come by. The voting public has been run through the wringer, layered with insult, and salted with derision. Issues have taken a back seat to personal attacks, muckraking, fear mongering and physical confrontation. My 10 year-old daughter opened my eyes the other day when she said the candidates should talk more about what the people need and spend less time attacking each other. She’s got my vote.
On November 8, Election Day, the people of this nation will speak, if not as one, then at least all at once. We will reflect upon the noise of this campaign and, ironically, cast our vote in silence.
There is power in silence too. It gives us time for reflection and prayer. Our nation needs both, as we exercise our greatest responsibility as citizens, the act of voting for the values we hold dear.
Commentary – October 10, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
New shepherd for Arlington
The Catholic Diocese of Richmond will soon have a new neighbor. We learned this on Oct. 4 when Pope Francis appointed Bishop Michael F. Burbidge of Raleigh as the new Bishop of Arlington.
Bishop Burbidge, 59, is from Philadelphia as is our own Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo. Bishop Burbidge served as Rector of St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia, the same post Bishop DiLorenzo had until he was named auxiliary Bishop for the Diocese of Scranton, Pa. In fact, Bishop Burbidge was one of Bishop DiLorenzo’s students when he taught moral theology at the seminary.
Both men were ordained priests of the Archdiocese of Philadelphia.
Our good and loyal friend, Bishop Paul S. Loverde, will now be Apostolic Administrator of Arlington until Bishop Burbidge’s installation as the fourth Bishop of Arlington on Tuesday, Dec. 6 at St. Thomas More Cathedral.
Bishop DiLorenzo and Bishop Loverde have enjoyed a warm and cordial relationship with both men guiding the work of the Virginia Catholic Conference which was established soon after Bishop DiLorenzo arrived in Richmond.
We got to know Bishop Loverde well with his visits to Richmond for Catholic Advocacy Day during the annual sessions of the Virginia General Assembly. He and Bishop DiLorenzo collaborated on how Virginia Catholics could play a significant role in promoting state legislation which would support the Church’s concern for the unborn and help for the poor and elderly.
One should surmise that Bishop Burbidge, like Bishop DiLorenzo, is a strong supporter of Catholic schools. He attended Catholic grade schools and graduated from Cardinal O’Hara High School in Springfield, Pa. in 1975. He then entered the seminary and was ordained a priest in 1984. He has a doctorate in Education from Immaculata College.
As a teacher—a major role of any bishop—he was on the faculties, successively, of his alma mater, Cardinal O’Hara, Archbishop Wood High School and St. Charles Borromeo. He was Dean of Students of the latter.
“We have a lot in common,” Bishop DiLorenzo said of Bishop Burbidge.
In the last 10 years (2006-2016) Bishop Burbidge has led the Raleigh Diocese during a period of rapid growth. The number of registered Catholics has increased more than 40 percent to an estimated population of 430,000 Catholics.
Bishop DiLorenzo will now be working alongside one of his former students, each serving as a shepherd of the Catholic lay faithful in their respective diocese.
But getting prepared for the installation of a new Bishop of Arlington is a reminder that our own Bishop DiLorenzo will next year begin preparing to turn over the Diocese’s leadership to the 13th Bishop of Richmond. We do not know when this will happen, but Bishop DiLorenzo will be 75 on April 15, 2017 at which time he will submit a letter of resignation as is required of all bishops at age 75.
In the case of Bishop Loverde, a little more than a year passed before his successor to the Diocese of Arlington was appointed.
Catholics of the Diocese of Richmond will warmly welcome our new neighbor and now wish Bishop Loverde many happy years in his retirement.
Commentary – September 26, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Father David Stanfill and his parishioners of Holy Rosary, Richmond, had no hesitation in welcoming Richmond’s finest among police officers, firefighters and first responders at the Blue Mass September 10.
These individuals, he said, “protect our society with vigilance, and then respond with action in times of need.”
Father Stanfill also expressed gratitude to the spouses and children of these individuals who also make sacrifices “for the countless holiday parties that may have been missed, birthday celebrations, even the simple family meals that may have been postponed” because their husband or father had duties that took them “elsewhere in order to respond to the needs of others.”
“The citizens of Richmond, and surrounding areas of Virginia, owe you a great debt of gratitude,” Father Stanfill said.
Holy Rosary’s pastor used the liturgy’s parable on the lost sheep to demonstrate God’s care in his willingness to respond quickly to us when we are lost and in trouble.
“Every sinner who returns to God causes a joyful celebration to break out in the halls of heaven and in the heart of the Father.
“This is what Jesus wants us to have in mind when we find ourselves lost, stuck in our sins, and separated from Him and from one another.
“He wants us to see Him as our Savior, not as our punisher.
“He wants us to feel that welcome back embrace, the joy of reunion with Him.”
We know what sin is. Many believing Christians still worry about whether God will forgive them, especially the sins of which we feel ashamed. We should look upon those fears as snares of the devil.
“God, the very first, first responder, sets an example by going after the lost and endangered among us, saving the one in trouble, and protecting us until we can be brought to safety,” Father Stanfill said.
“You first responders are on the front lines for us all,” the priest reminded them.
“We are able to go about our lives secure that we are not alone, and, if we have trouble, if we are lost, or in danger, or injured, we have confidence that if we call 911—help, you— will be on the way. Thank you for all you do, brothers and sisters, all you do to serve and protect us. We are grateful.”
This message of gratitude was heard by a packed Holy Rosary Church which had the Richmond Chief of Police and five Richmond City Council members among the congregation.
Commentary – September 21, 2016
—Catholic News Service
The campaign to repeal the Hyde Amendment
The Hyde Amendment is 40 years old this year. It undoubtedly has saved many lives. But the Democratic Party officially wants to repeal it, against the wishes of pro-life Democrats and almost everyone else.
Named for the late Rep. Henry Hyde of Illinois, who was a strong pro-life congressman, the amendment had wide bipartisan support when it was passed in 1976 because neither party thought that taxpayers should be forced to pay for abortions. How times have changed!
The Hyde Amendment says: “None of the funds appropriated by this title shall be available to pay for an abortion, except where the life of the mother would be endangered if the fetus were carried to term, or in the case of rape or incest.”
For 40 years, the amendment has been attached to the federal budget and spending bills passed by Congress. The Guttmacher Institute, the research arm of Planned Parenthood, has estimated that one out of four babies born to mothers on Medicaid would have been aborted were it not for the Hyde Amendment.
At this summer’s Democratic National Convention, pro-abortion delegates managed to pass the party’s platform with this language: “We will continue to oppose — and seek to overturn — federal and state laws and policies that impede a woman’s access to abortion, including by repealing the Hyde Amendment.”
Despite the efforts of pro-life Democrats, this made the Democratic Party more clearly the party of abortion. Its leaders believe that it will win the support of women who, they think, support legalized abortion and would like to have the government pay for them.
That doesn’t seem to be true, though. In an article reporting on the Democrats’ plans to repeal the Hyde Amendment, Our Sunday Visitor included the results of a survey conducted in July by the Marist Institute for Public Opinion for the Knights of Columbus. It showed that 62 percent of all Americans strongly oppose tax-funded abortion.
The survey results showed that tax-funded abortion is opposed by 65 percent of African-Americans, 61 percent of Latinos, 84 percent of Republicans, 61 percent of independents, and 44 percent of Democrats. According to Democrats for Life, by the way, one-third of Democrats, or about 23 million voters, are pro-life.
The Democratic nominees for president and vice president, Hillary Clinton and Tim Kaine, have both declared their support for the party’s push to repeal the Hyde Amendment. Clinton has long supported so-called abortion rights before organizations like Planned Parenthood, and is known for her remark at the World Summit of Women in 2015 that “deep-seated cultural codes, religious beliefs and structural biases have to be changed.” She has changed since she first ran for president in 2008 when she echoed her husband’s campaign of making abortion “safe, legal and rare.”
Kaine, a Catholic, meanwhile, has supported the Hyde Amendment in the past, but changed his position when the Democratic platform was passed and he became Clinton’s running mate.
We admit that we do not expect the Hyde Amendment to be repealed. That would require an act of Congress, and it is highly unlikely that Democrats will win control of the House of Representatives. But just the fact that this got into the Democratic platform demonstrates how far our society has fallen in this post-Christian world.
Abortion proponents have been successful in convincing Americans that abortion is just a normal part of women’s health care, something that women should do if they happen to become pregnant at an inconvenient time. At the Democratic convention, delegates actually cheered when Ilyse Hogue, president of NARAL Pro-Choice America, bragged that she had aborted her child for that reason. Women are being encouraged to be proud, not ashamed, of killing their unborn child, as demonstrated by the #ShoutYourAbortion campaign.
All this is being reported shortly after the canonization of St. Teresa of Kolkata. Perhaps we can think about what she said back in 1982 when she gave an address at Harvard University: “It is something unbelievable that today a mother, herself, murders her own child, afraid of having to feed one more child. This is one of the greatest poverties. A nation, people, family that allows that, that accepts that, they are the poorest of the poor.”
The views or positions presented in this or any guest editorial are those of the individual publication and do not necessarily represent the views of Catholic News Service or of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops.
Commentary – September 12, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Hooray for Catholic schools!
Catholic parents who send their children to Catholic schools do so because they know their young ones will get a quality education which emphasizes strong academics and operates in an environment which promotes Christian values.
Teachers in Catholic schools of the Diocese of Richmond are well qualified and want their students to succeed. They take their job seriously while knowing that their salaries are usually considerably less than what they would be earning in a public school.
They are dedicated to the task at hand — teaching and going the extra mile to help those students who find it more difficult to grasp the subject matter.
As a result, many Catholic schools in our diocese have earned the distinction of being Blue Ribbon Schools. This honor by the U.S. Department of Education is given to public and private schools who consistently achieve high scores on standardized tests. Some of our schools score 90 percent or higher.
With all that going for them, Catholic schools value their Catholic identity and what it means to be Catholic. They expect Catholic parents to do their part in strengthening Catholic identity by making sure that their children attend Mass on Sundays.
Some parents might feel it’s not important for their children to go to Mass on Sunday since they already attend Mass during the week at school. Parents who do not go to Mass themselves on Sunday are not likely to make other arrangements for their children to get to church. They might examine why they send a child to Catholic school yet not find it important to attend Sunday Mass.
This sends a wrong message to children. It’s up to the parents to see that their children learn the significance of discipline, respect and outreach to those who are less fortunate and need help.
Part of any discipline is adhering to the rules. Breaking rules can obviously be done, but it certainly is not something which parents should encourage.
Catholic schools strengthen Catholic identity and Catholic teachings. This is part of their mission.
With such dedicated teachers and principals in Catholic schools, it is disheartening to learn that some parents find fault with what is going on — and of course, it’s always the teacher or school rules that are wrong.
Some are more strident than others, but their constant complaints are a real downer to Catholic educators who work hard. If parents find conditions that consistently irritate them, they should consider removing their child and finding another school more to their liking.
“You spend a lot of money to send your child here and we feel bad taking your money when you’re so unhappy,” one principal told an angry parent. Certainly no school is holding any student hostage.
School-wide service projects are a great aspect of most Catholic schools. Students of St. Patrick School in Norfolk recently had a successful campaign in raising funds equalling one million pennies. Everyone contributed something which went to an orphanage and a neighboring parish in Haiti.
“Having a school-wide service project that touches the lives of the community is a living testament to being followers of Jesus,” Stephen Hammond, principal of St. Patrick’s, told The Catholic Virginian.
More good news is that St. Patrick’s current enrollment is 415, the highest ever in its 12 years.
This year’s enrollment at Bishop Sullivan Catholic High School in Virginia Beach is 460, a big increase from the previous year.
Commentary – August 29, 2016
—John Garvey is president of The Catholic University of America in Washington. Catholic University’s website is www.cua.edu.
Mother Teresa: Witness of holiness
Blessed Teresa of Kolkata came to The Catholic University of America 45 years ago to receive her first honorary degree.
If I’d been president of our school at the time I would have tried hard to get a picture of her in a Catholic University sweatshirt.
I do have a lovely picture of my predecessor Clarence Walton with Mother Teresa in her sari, with the hood the university confers on Doctors of Humane Letters. The citation for the degree said that the university was privileged to recognize a woman “for whom love is not a slogan but a way of life.”
In 2010 the U.S. Postal Service held a ceremony at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, at the corner of our campus, to dedicate a 44-cent stamp to Mother Teresa.
I did attend that ceremony. So did Mother Teresa’s novice mistress from the Sisters of Loreto (the order she joined before she founded the Missionaries of Charity).
On Sept. 4 of this year, Pope Francis will proclaim Mother Teresa a saint. And so she is, one of the great and holy women of the 20th century.
This might seem a little sudden, as these things go. She died only 19 years ago. Most saints whose feasts we observe in September died a long time ago. And at least since the Reformation, the canonization process itself has taken a long time.
But St. John Paul II changed the process in 1983 in ways that made it faster. It’s now more like an academic inquiry than a trial.
The office of the “devil’s advocate” (a canon lawyer whose job it was to find fault with the cause) was eliminated. The number of required miracles attributed to the candidate’s intercession was reduced from four to two.
In recent years we have seen many more saints, beatified and canonized at a faster clip, than ever before.
I’m a big fan of the new approach. When our children were growing up we used to read the lives of the saints over breakfast. The idea was to set for them examples of holiness, to keep in mind during the day.
Kids find stories about real people more accessible than, say, St. Paul’s letters. From St. Martin they could learn a lesson of generosity; from St. Clare, humility; from St. Lawrence, fortitude.
But when all your examples come from the third or the 13th century, there is a danger that they’ll become like Aesop’s fables. The lessons they teach are poignant and useful. But the characters may seem unreal, like they were drawn with the lesson in mind.
But Mother Teresa was real, and recent. My father used to send Mother Teresa money and got a thank-you note from her.
We know from the testimony of many people still living what good she did for the poor around the world. When I read her own account of Jesus speaking to her in 1946 on a train to Darjeeling, and saying “come be my light” to the poor, I feel a conviction about God’s acting in the world that is as certain as faith can be.
We are all called to be saints. The wonderful thing about our newest saint is that she shows that this means us, and that it is possible.
Commentary – August 15, 2016
—Stephen Previtera, The Catholic Virginian
Pray, hope and don’t worry.
Recently, while working with the Diocesan Office of Social Ministry, I visited a migrant camp on the Eastern Shore. Although a thin strip of land, vast fields of corn, soybean and tomatoes surround the tiny towns and camps that dot the peninsula. Here, the pace and clamor of the outside world is dampened by what fills the senses; the smell of churned-up fields, pine trees and salt air.
On migrant buses you see unknown faces that become anonymous bent bodies on their way to unfamiliar fields. And nine times out of ten, if you smile as the bus passes, you’ll get a wave or smile returned. These are our brothers and sisters who break their backs in the elements so I can buy cheaper tomatoes.
They come from Haiti, Mexico, and all points south with few means of transportation, fewer possessions and, due to the challenges of language and society, little voice in the affairs of their lives.
What they do possess humbles me. There is laughter and a quick smile. There are mothers who gently kiss their babies and braid their little girl’s hair with fingers gnarled by fieldwork. We find fathers who bend deeply to one knee when receiving the Eucharist. Their faith are the roots of their existence, even to the point of not accepting Communion if they have been unable to find a priest for Confession.
They have a dignity, humility and faith that would shame the influence peddlers and fear mongers, whom rarely if ever give those tomatoes in the salads of their power lunches a second thought.
Those who dominate the headlines and airways threaten that we will lose everything if we don’t heed their vitriolic warnings. They might take a lesson from the invisible people who have no voice at all. Trust in God.
My mother often reminds me of the words of Saint Padre Pio; “Pray, Hope, and Don’t Worry.” Never have those words been more appropriate. And never have I received a better lesson of their wisdom than on the Eastern Shore, in a migrant camp, where God’s children smile.
Commentary – August 1, 2016
—Carrie Gress, National Catholic Register
Can We Stop Kidding Ourselves About “I’m Personally Opposed, But”?
In 1984, after much interior laboring over the thorny issue of abortion, Catholic Governor Mario Cuomo delivered the speech that would free Catholics from being swaddled in Church teaching while liberating them to cuddle up to pro-abortion policy. The New York Governor conceived the hair-splitting notion that amounted to – “I’m personally opposed to abortion, but politically pro-choice.” Born of a desire to appear to be pro-life (and adhering to Catholic teaching), while also appeasing the pro-choice juggernaut that doesn’t allow for choice on the issue, Cuomo seemingly resolved the unresolvable. Catholic politicians and others have hung onto it for dear life ever since.
This argument has been shown to have a real Achilles’ heel. Peter Kreeft, in his ever-insightful style, deftly refutes it based upon the reality that parsing phrases doesn’t hide that abortion is the deliberate taking of innocent human life.
I want to ask one of these politicians, “Why are you personally opposed to abortion? Is it because you believe that abortion is the deliberate killing of an innocent person? If not, why are you personally opposed to abortion? It’s just…it’s yucky? Like you’re personally opposed to yogurt?” If abortion doesn’t kill a human life, I agree with the pro-choicers: it is an intolerable oppression of women’s freedom and women’s bodies to tell them what to do. If that’s their body and not somebody else’s body, you have no right to tell them what to do. But if it’s somebody else’s body, they have no right to kill that other person.
There is an additional problem with the “personally opposed, but” position: it is completely illogical. Perhaps it can be seen more easily if we dilate the argument out to include other hot-button issues.
Imagine if one said:
I’m personally opposed to racism, but I insist we publicly fund people to be racists.
That politician would rightly be branded a racist.
I’m personally opposed to rape, but I will vote for laws that permit it.
This politician would be called a misogynist, at best, if not an outright criminal.
I’m personally opposed to guns, but I will vote every time with the NRA lobby.
And this politician would be called a fraud.
But somehow, if one says, “I’m personally opposed to abortion, but…,” then you’re just known as a Catholic politician.
Kreeft addressed this issue as well. He points out that to say “I’m personally opposed, but I wouldn’t want to make it illegal,” is akin to saying, “I’m personally opposed to slavery, but I’m pro-choice. If you want to have slaves, go ahead.”
In the movie A Man for All Seasons St. Thomas More, explaining to his daughter why he can’t just go along with the king’s wishes, says, “When a man takes an oath, he’s holding his own self in his own hands like water, and if he opens his fingers then, he needn’t hope to find himself again.” The Profession of Faith that Catholics make is just as solemn as any oath, and to pretend that our public actions don’t affect it is just drivel. For these “opposed, but” politicians, their water has broken, and there is little hope that their faith – like the children in the womb they fail to defend — will make it out alive. But we should hope and continue to pray that both will live.
Reprinted with permission from National Catholic Register. The original article can be found here.
Commentary – August 1, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
The consequences of social media
Those who use social media to air information or express their opinion should be aware that their words might one day come back to haunt them.
This happened to Diane Amoratis, an employee of Thomas Jefferson University Hospital who lost her job after she posted remarks which were clearly racist. She wrote about her fellings of the Black Lives Matter movement on Facebook.
Her words were not censored and she used what is now known as “the ‘N’ word” in her inflammatory opinion. Many who saw here statements on Facebook were offended. The result was termination of her job. This happened the same day.
In another case, a young and promising high school senior lost a full scholarship to a major university after the school did a check which showed he had made derogatory statements on Facebook.
Social media is not a playground. It can be taken seriously by people who screen job applications and criteria which evaluate scholarship applications. What may be a flip remark with little thought to the consequences may cost a worthy and qualified applicant a job, a promotion or a scholarship.
Social media can be considered a friend if used properly. Now users need to consider what is proper.
Commentary – July 18, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
A disconnect in justice
While some may deny that racial profiling of African American men is a reality, it indeed exists.
Others may find it hard to believe that white and black professionals who have the means to hire a lawyer get preferential treatment in the criminal justice system and avoid being put in jail while someone who is poor and charged with the same offense lands in jail.
Here is what happened to Shelton Jones, a middle-aged black man who heads the parish pastoral council of St. Elizabeth’s in Richmond.
Mr. Jones drives a late-model black Cadillac. He drives his car anywhere he needs to go and this includes travel to and from church for Mass on Sunday and for meetings of the parish’s Men’s Group.
He recently was questioned by a white police officer in Richmond as he pulled into the St. Elizabeth’s parking lot in the city’s Highland Park neighborhood. He was not aware of any violation in his driving so was surprised when the officer asked two questions of him before he stepped out of the car.
“Sir, is this your car?” was the first question. “Is this your church?” was the second one.
The answer to both questions was yes. The officer followed protocol and asked to see his driver’s license and registration. Mr. Jones was there for a meeting of the parish Men’s Group.
One wonders why Mr. Jones was questioned at all. Was it because the officer thought he was pulling into the nearest parking lot to avoid being followed by the police? Or was it because a black man did not fit the image one would have of someone driving a late-model Cadillac in a low-income urban neighborhood?
The event ended peacefully. The officer thanked Mr. Jones, returned his license and registration and then drove away.
Now for another case scenario. A high-ranking administrator who is white was driving over the speed limit and was stopped by a police officer who charged her with reckless driving. She was given a court date at which she had to appear.
She panicked when she learned that the judge likely to hear the case was reputed to automatically sentence anyone found guilty of reckless driving with three days in jail. On advice of a friend who was an attorney and knew the judge, she hired another lawyer to represent her when she went to court.
As she waited her turn before the judge, she saw that others charged with reckless driving were sentenced to three days in jail. One woman pleaded with the judge saying she had three young children at home and could not leave them to be in jail over the weekend. A man charged with the same offense received no leniency when he said he had just started a new job. The judge would not bend — three days in jail.
With the skillful words of her lawyer, the administrator was spared time in jail and only had to pay a steep fine. She also had the lawyer’s fee to pay.
The reality is that someone who is financially able to afford legal representation normally gets off the hook while others who don’t have money for a lawyer usually get incarcerated. We see it over and over again.
There is a disconnect here. Justice should be applied equally for all.
As Catholic Christians, we must ask God to help us — and our nation — to move forward and make justice for all a reality.
And in fairness and respect for all in light of the recent killings in Dallas, let us pray for the safety of all police officers and emergency responders. We are grateful for their presence and protection.
Commentary – July 9, 2016
—Russell Shaw, CNA/EWTN News
What the pro-life movement needs to do now
In the dead of winter every year thousands of pro-lifers throng the streets of downtown Washington making a public statement on behalf of life. Converging on the Mall for speeches in the shadow of the Washington Monument and the White House, they march up one of the capital city’s broad avenues to the marble palace that houses the Supreme Court.
It is not recorded that the justices take any notice of their pro-life visitors. None of them has ever stood on the steps and addressed the March for Life. On the evidence, the Supreme Court today remains the bastion of pro-abortion support that it’s been since the day in January 1973 when it abruptly and with no visible precedent legalized permissive abortion throughout the United States.
If there was any doubt about where the court stands, it disappeared on June 27, last day of the court’s recently concluded term. It voted 5-3 to overturn portions of a Texas law setting standards for abortion clinics, including physical conditions comparable to surgical centers and hospital admitting privileges for doctors who do abortions.
Justice Stephen Breyer, speaking for the majority, said the requirements “place a substantial obstacle in the path” of women seeking abortions. Similar provisions in other states also presumably fail to meet the Supreme Court’s “substantial obstacle” test. Pro-life Americans might reasonably say the Supreme Court is a substantial obstacle to regulating the performance of abortion.
In one sense, the solution to that problem is obvious: replace two of the pro-choice justices with pro-life ones. If elected president, Hillary Clinton certainly won’t do that. Donald Trump has said he would, and has issued a list of names from among which he would make his selection. But there are two problems with that: first, Trump needs to get elected, after which he must get two shots at filling Supreme Court vacancies that don’t presently exist and have them confirmed by the Senate. There’s no certainty any of those things will happen.
This points to an unpleasant but necessary conclusion: it would be self-defeating to go on sending abortion-restricting laws to the Supreme Court as long as it’s virtually certain the court will overturn them, reaffirming and strengthening its own prochoice precedents in the process.
Miracles do happen of course, but there’s no sign of one happening here, as the outcome in the Texas case has painfully reminded us.
Is this a counsel of despair? Not at all. The pro-life movement simply needs a strategy built around things like education, motivation, and services to women at risk, along with an expanded pro-life agenda that includes many other issues along with battling abortion. Call it building a Culture of Life.
Getting the Supreme Court to reverse itself on abortion shouldn’t be abandoned as the longterm goal, but pushing test cases to bring that about should be put on hold until the time—not too far in the future, let us hope—when there’s a realistic chance of that happening. As for the courts, defending the religious liberty right to refuse cooperation with abortion should keep pro-life lawyers occupied now and in the foreseeable future.
And when those thousands of pro-lifers march through the streets of Washington again next January on the anniversary of the infamous Roe v. Wade decision, I hope to see many of them carrying banners, singing, and praying not only in opposition to abortion but in favor of Culture of Life issues from gun control to ending the death penalty. Give it some thought, folks.
Commentary – July 6, 2016
—Tony Magliano, CNA/EWTN News
‘I was a stranger and you welcomed me’
Over 37 years-ago when Annunciation House – a sanctuary and home of hospitality that has served over 100,000 refugees, homeless poor and undocumented workers – was started in El Paso, Texas, founding director Ruben Garcia and a few friends wanted to place themselves among the poor, to see where the poor would lead them. He said, “They took us to the undocumented – the most vulnerable.”
Garcia explained to me that since the undocumented have no legal status in the United States, they are forced to take undesirable, poorly paid jobs, which offer no benefits. Unlike poor U.S. citizens, undocumented workers and their families cannot receive food stamps, Medicaid, or housing assistance. They are at the lowest rung of American life.
So why do they come?
Garcia said, “They come because most often they and their families are extremely poor, and they cannot find jobs in their native countries that pay a living wage. And that the U.S. has many more low-skilled jobs than there are Americans who are willing to take them.”
But why don’t they enter legally?
Because there are not enough low-skilled temporary worker visas available. And yet the demand for such workers is quite high. Plus the expense and burdensome government red tape required of employers tempts many of them to use “contractors” who often unscrupulously recruit undocumented workers.
According to “The Hill” (http://bit.ly/1rm6iF0), certain segments of the U.S. economy like agriculture, are overwhelmingly dependent upon illegal immigrants. “In terms of overall numbers, The Department of Labor reports that of the 2.5 million farm workers in the U.S., over half (53 percent) are illegal immigrants. Growers and labor unions put this figure at 70 percent.”
Kevin Appleby, director of international migration policy for the Catholic-based Center for Migration Studies, told me the situation is filled with hypocrisy. Among many employers and politicians “there is a nod and a wink” to keep the system benefitting numerous employers at the expense of undocumented workers who have virtually no rights.
Therefore, millions of foreign workers are forced to cross deserts and often face drug gangs to fill vacant American jobs in order to support their very poor families.
To learn more visit Farmworker Justice (www.farmworkerjustice.org).
Saint John XXIII, in his encyclical Pacem in Terris (“Peace on Earth”) wrote, “Every human being has the right … when there are just reasons for it … to emigrate to other countries and take up residence there.”
Garcia asked that I raise the following questions on behalf of the undocumented: “Should undocumented immigrants have to live in an underground world? Is it right to use closed borders for the purpose of exploiting cheap labor? Why is it so acceptable to have undocumented workers perform the jobs few Americans are willing to do – pick our fruits and vegetables, wash dishes, and work in meat slaughterhouses?”
Lord Jesus, heal our nation’s indifference, and inspire us to welcome these strangers as valuable members of your one human family, so that on the Day of Judgment we may gladly hear you say, “I was a stranger and you welcomed me.”
Tony Magliano is an internationally syndicated social justice and peace columnist.
Commentary – July 5, 2016
—Anthony Buono, CNA/EWTN News
Why Marriage is the cure to selfishness
I read a recent article that started out by saying that “all marriages start off very selfishly.” He went on to say that people realize into the marriage that they can’t be so selfish and act accordingly. It’s not quite that simple.
Catholic teaching tells us that everyone born is selfish due to original sin that configured humanity to a condition of a self-serving nature. In Christ, through Baptism, original sin is removed, but its effects remain. Thus, we still have that strong tendency to serve ourselves as the priority in our lives. Thanks be to God, Baptism also configures us to Jesus Christ and we share His divine nature, making grace available to us.
Now let’s look at selfishness from a practical level as it applies to dating, love and marriage.
Yes, it’s true that marriages start of very selfishly. However, Christian marriage is a call to a selfless exchange of two people who become one in every way, and subsequently share that love with others.
This is a tall order. More than half of all marriages fall short of this ideal. I would argue there are many that maintain their marriages but suffer tremendous strain due to unwillingness to address the weaknesses where love fails or is diminished, causing an environment that is contrary to the marriage ideal.
It’s easy to accuse one or both persons of being too selfish. Is it selfish for a unhappy wife to want the affection of her husband when there is none? Is it selfish of an unhappy husband to expect the emotional support of his wife but not receive it?
There is a place for selfishness. Some selfishness is better identified as our “needs.” Our needs are important and have an effect on how we love another. If no needs are met as were expected, then love can die. Should it die? Probably not, if we only focus on loving as Jesus loved, which is a giving and self-donation without getting it in return. But only God can live this kind of love.
Human beings fall short of this kind of love. And it will always be this way. Marital love is a tall order because it’s unnatural for human beings to accomplish. It’s impossible because we all have needs, and we all have expectations as to how those needs should be met. It’s not for us to discount these needs. But it’s also not for us to excuse our behavior based on these needs.
The key is to accept that we are selfish people throughout our whole lives, and that success in marriage between two human beings is in embracing each other’s humanness as the probability, while mutually striving to become more like that unnatural divine love that is God. We need to accept that 1) we are selfish and need to work on becoming less selfish, 2) only God can love us perfectly, and 3) any human being is going to fail at times in true love. This kind of acceptance goes a long way in how we approach our own needs as well as the needs of the person we love.
There is still the matter of our valid needs that do have to be met, at least often enough to keep us afloat. No person can sustain providing love to another by meeting all their needs, while having no need of their own met. That’s not marital love. Marital love requires both persons participating in the game. When one is down and lacks the ability at the time to give, the other needs to be the stronger one, and vice versa.
In a word, successful marriage between two very non-perfect people is a sharing of love that embraces the other’s selfishness in their moments of selfish acts. When a selfish act is presented by one, it’s imperative that the other act selflessly in response in order to help rectify the situation and restore peace. If both act selfishly through actions and reactions, the course toward failed marriage is set.
But I have already said that we are all selfish, and it’s unnatural to be selfless. Exactly! Christian marriage is impossible without God. More to the point, two human beings cannot sustain love for a lifetime without divine influence.
In order find a genuine love that can make a marriage work, you have to be committed to working on your selfishness. It’s a ferocious passion not easily tamed. If unchecked, we shouldn’t be surprised when not only can we not meet another person’s needs, we can’t recognize a person capable of meeting our needs.
We work on our selfishness primarily by selfless acts. We have to practice it in order to improve. It’s called “character development.” A person of good character is not someone who is no longer selfish. Rather, it’s a person who recognizes that selfishness is behind the problems, and capable of seeing the good and positive qualities of another above any bad decisions, mistakes, or unattractive qualities.
Marriage is the cure to selfishness because it forces a person to get out of themselves and tend to their spouse and children. However, marriage only works to cure selfishness as both people are permitted to have setbacks because of selfish moments, and grow in selflessness together by being interested in and attentive to each other’s needs as they struggle and grow.
That is love that cannot fail.
Commentary – July 4, 2016
—Deacon Paul Mahefky
Dignity of body burial
There was a movie a few years back called “The Way.”
Martin Sheen played a father that lost his son to an accident that occurred while the son was on a quest to walk the Camino de Santiago.
The father was on the golf course when he took the call from Spain that his son was dead. He flew to Spain and had his son’s body cremated.
The father decided to continue his son’s goal to complete the Camino. All along the way to Santiago, he scatters his son’s ashes.
As I sat in the movie theater, I wished that I could have stepped into the movie and explained the Catholic order of Christian Funerals.
The Church has traditionally viewed cremation with caution. This caution goes back to the early Church.
It was the pagans who burned their dead, a practice the early Church saw as a denial of the afterlife.
The attitude of the Church regarding burial had not changed in 2,000 years, until December, 1963. Sacrosanctum Concilium, #81, stated that cremation is permitted, but not encouraged.
Even today, although cremation is permitted, full body burial is still the preferred means.
The Church has always given great reverence to the body and to the community that is suffering from the loss of a loved one. The beauty of the full body burial allows the community, in the rite of the Christian Funeral, to move and love the body that we have called our mother, father, sister, brother or relative, to its final resting place.
In Mark 16: 1, when the Sabbath was over, Mary Magdalene, Mary, the mother of James, and Salome brought spices, in order to come and anoint His body.
Today there is a trend to regard the body as an inconvenience, and not a gift to be reverenced in life and death.
Having a funeral in the Church, with the body present among the community, makes a statement that we remember all the aspects of God’s gift to us that was that person. The church recommends that cremation should take place after the Funeral Liturgy, at which the body is present. Popular wisdom says that cremation just speeds up what is going to happen anyway, and you save money and get to be buried in the church niche.
How can that be all bad? You can speed up a dying person’s death, he is going to die anyway, and you will save a large hospital bill. This begins a steep slope that leads to a direction that the church is teaching against.
We have been given a sacred gift of life in a human body that has been designed in God’s likeness. In this gift of the body, which has contained a soul, should we not prize the body of the departed?
St. Augustine stated, “even more so, because the body isn’t a garment or an ornament, but bound to the very nature of a human being.” St. Augustine got it right. “The Way,” not the movie, is to take bodies seriously and sacredly and allow us to celebrate the gift of the full body burial rite.
Commentary – June 26, 2016
—Father Eugene Hemrick, Catholic News Service
Happy are they who stand up for truth with their life
An email with the subject line “Philosophy 101” sent by my classmate contained wise sayings with a philosophical twist.
For example, one was, “We should realize that when we have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, with whom we can chat, laugh, talk, sing, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven and earth — that is true happiness!”
Another read, “Don’t educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be happy, so when they grow up they will know the value of things, not the price.”
And another said, “The nicest place to be is in someone’s thoughts.”
Looking through each quote, a common denominator becomes apparent: True happiness comes from living wisely.
The day I read them, St. Matthew’s beatitudes were the readings for the Mass. “Ah, a more perfect connection between wise living and living the beatitudes cannot be found,” I thought.
“Beatitude” means “happy,” as in happy are the peacemakers, the meek and those persecuted.
Regarding this last beatitude about those who are persecuted, we might ask, What is happy about being persecuted, or for that matter being meek or a peacemaker in today’s violent world?
In speaking of persecution, Christ is teaching us we are happiest when living the truth, but we also must realize that not everyone wants to hear Christ’s message, and at times Christ’s messenger is killed.
As bloody as the arrival of truth may be, could it be that many of our heart-wrenching anxieties are the result of its absence? Truth helps us live an ordered life by creating trust, confidence and commitment: the principal ingredients of happiness.
When truth is missing, the works of evil are given full reign to raise havoc. Yes, happy are they who stand up for truth with their life!
The same happiness comes from meekness and humility. It is the perfect antithesis to self-centeredness, haughtiness and tyranny: negative ingredients that create unhappiness and disgust.
To be a peacemaker is to desire a world of civility and making people feel at home with one another. How true is the happiness of having friends with whom you can laugh, chat and sing.
Throughout the psalms, the prosperity of Israel is pictured as the Israelites at home with God and one another, which presents us with a beautiful model for countering today’s divisiveness.
When moments of unhappiness occur, try meditating on the beatitudes. Taken to heart and looked at philosophically, they contain the perfect ingredients for true happiness.
Commentary – June 23, 2016
—Erick Rommel, Catholic News Service
Remaining in touch when you never let go
One of the great things about social media is that you get to keep in touch with people who otherwise may have exited your life.
One of those people for me is Jessica. We both attended John Carroll School in Bel Air, Maryland. She graduated two years after me. Not too long ago, we would have gone in different directions after high school and would have never seen or heard from each other again.
Thanks to social media, we’ve never lost touch. Over the internet, we’ve been casual acquaintances through cross-country moves, marriages, children and much more. I wouldn’t say we’re close-close, but we’re internet-close. In 2016, that means a lot.
Recently, she posted a question to her Facebook page, “What are a few things that were very traumatic/dramatic to you as a high schooler that might not seem so earth shattering to you today?”
The answers were revealing. One person mentioned feeling like a best friend is deserting you when they start to date. Another said she had been bothered when people talked about her. A third discussed the insecurity that comes from feeling like those around you are more athletic or better-looking.
Outside of the post, Jessica and I spoke more about the question. She currently works with at-risk teens in the Southwest. Her post stemmed out of a conversation she had with her students.
Initially, I questioned how the experiences of teens from a suburban, private Catholic school could relate to at-risk kids in an urban area. She quickly put me in my place. Regardless of upbringing, we’re all people facing similar issues. Concerns about bad grades are universal. Concerns about breaking up are universal. Concerns that people are talking about you are universal.
In all of the comments to Jessica’s post, one summed up the entire conversation best, “It’s amazing to me to read all these posts and realize how many people were struggling with things that I never realized. I thought I was the only insecure one!”
Those teen feelings never truly go away, but over time, we learn to see humor in situations that once caused angst. One day, you’ll see someone who needs to build themselves up by tearing you down and you’ll laugh. You’ll understand their insecurity can’t affect your happiness.
Reading the comments on Jessica’s post was also important for another reason. Reading each one became a minireunion. In those comments I saw names of friends I follow online but haven’t seen in years, but I also saw names of people who I am no longer in contact with, including the date to my senior prom.
Just as important, I saw names of people I’ve never met and never will. Despite their anonymity, their comments rang true because what they felt, what I felt and what you feel are emotions that unite us and bring us closer together — when we let them.
Keep this in mind as you look over your friend lists on all the various platforms that exist on your phones and computers. Remember those people from your past as the next social media innovation takes the world by storm. Don’t cut them loose. Bring them along for the ride.
One day, someone you haven’t seen for years in person and only see occasionally on social media is going to re-enter your life and touch it in a way you can’t imagine.
That’s the true power of communication in the 21st century.
Commentary – June 21, 2016
—America Magazine, via Catholic News Service
This well-trod path — how maddening, how wrenching to follow along it once again. Forty-nine young lives cut down in Orlando, Florida, in a collection of minutes. How even to fathom that; how to fix it?
To our sorrow, there is nothing we can do to alter this most recent tally sheet of victims, just as there is nothing any of us can do to bring back the children and teachers and administrators killed at the Sandy Hook school and so many others before them. They have been killed, and we have been complicit, in what we have collectively done or failed to do, in their killing.
That admission, of course, does not excuse the men who pulled the triggers or the poisonous ideologies or mindless wrath that propelled them. But the overarching obligation of each member of society to the common good also cannot be denied. Despite years of such mass shootings, despite the daily toll of gun violence in our nation’s communities, we have not secured this most basic right to life and safety.
It is a Christian duty, but abiding in hope can seem foolish at times. How many of us on June 12, hearing the reports from Orlando and checking in throughout the day as the death toll rose, were tempted simply to check out, to surrender to a numbing hopelessness before a problem that has come to seem intractable?
Some have urged not more prayer but action in response to the massacre in Orlando, and surely prayer devoid of acts would be regrettable. But prayer helps bring us to that still place where we can prepare for action; it is through prayer that we restore hope. The Resurrection reminds us nothing is impossible with God.
Yes, there are petitions to be circulated and political works to be organized if we wish to end the national plague of gun violence. But we can also look across our own communities and reach out to someone suffering because of these events or begin a dialogue with neighbors and friends who believe freedom is guaranteed by the gun, not imperiled by it. We can propose an examination of conscience within the church and our society that demands that we consider the source of such homicidal rage against our LGBT brothers and sisters.
And we can keep faith with the one who will wipe away every tear and bring life out of death, who assures us that though afflicted in every way, we are not crushed; though perplexed, we are not enthralled to despair.
(The views or positions presented in this or any guest editorial are those of the individual publication and do not necessarily represent the views of Catholic News Service or of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops.)
Commentary – June 20, 2016
—Carol Zimmermann, Catholic News Service
Take the high road
In today’s age of cyberbullying and online vitriol, be sure to take the high road and build people up rather than tear them down.
So said Bishop Christopher J. Coyne of Burlington, Vermont, when he spoke to Catholic communicators at the recent Catholic Media Conference in St. Louis.
“What can I say to make things better? What are the words that may impart grace to those who hear?” the bishop, chairman of the U.S. bishops’ Committee on Communications, asked the group to consider.
He said he knew the journalists in the room were “acutely aware of the significant decline in the tenor of public discourse” during the last few years, a fact that is readily apparent in publications’ comment boxes and social media.
In such an environment, the bishop urged communicators to lift up good examples of humanity, charity and grace and if possible, “engage in some form of active ministry to others: feeding, housing, counseling, visiting or praying.”
“We have to be even more careful to be reflective rather than reactive,” he added saying there is already enough anger and coarseness out there. “Let’s just not add to it.”
Bishop Coyne also noted that the church is not immune from negative discourse, saying: “one of the most destructive activities in the church today is the internecine fighting among people and groups who claim to be Catholic.”
Echoing this message, he quoted Basilian Father Thomas Rosica, who was keynote speaker at the Brooklyn Diocese’s observance of World Communications Day: “The character assassination on the internet by those claiming to be Catholic and Christian has turned it into a graveyard of corpses strewn all around.”
Father Rosica, CEO of Canada’s Salt and Light Catholic Media Foundation, also described Catholic online conversations as sometimes “more a culture of death than a culture of life,” the bishop said.
Instead of responding in kind, Bishop Coyne urged the journalists and communication leaders to follow the example of St. Therese of Lisieux who saw every task as a chance to make the love of God more concrete.
With this in mind, he said every news story, video, blog post, tweet, email or response to an online comment can “become an opportunity to manifest God’s love.”
He also reminded the group that the world they are writing in is constantly changing and is shifting to one that is largely non-religious and secular.
“We are now missionaries,” he said, which should influence writing, podcasts, videos and blog posts because these forms of communication might be bringing people the Gospel message for the first time.
“And here is something more to consider,” he said. “One cannot give what one does not have.”
In order to help others know Jesus, he said, “We must first know him ourselves.”
Commentary – June 16, 2016
—Effie Caldarola, Catholic News Service
A good Christian is a Christian with compassion
Years ago, in the mid-1980s, my younger brother Bill and I sat alone in the tiny kitchen of my mom’s house. It was very late.
We were a family that didn’t confront issues head-on. We walked around the elephant in the room, and if that meant sometimes we had to take turns cleaning up after the big fellow, we did so silently and in a way that wouldn’t offend anyone.
So it was with fear and faltering tones that my brother confided to me that he was gay. I had long suspected — no, I assumed — as much. His “roommate” was practically a member of the family whom everyone loved, even while we tiptoed around the nature of their relationship. We feared my mother learning the truth, although later we all realized she’d always known it.
Nevertheless, we’d continued our private version of “don’t ask, don’t tell.”
So, the revelation was not startling. The stinging memory of that evening came in another way. My brother told me he had confided in a few other family members but had feared telling me because I was such a “good” Catholic.
I have spent the past 30 years trying to recast the image of a “good” Catholic. I want to be the Catholic who offers compassion and a listening ear. I do not want to be the judgmental, self-righteous Christian. I want to be the Catholic to whom another brings his story to share in safety and love. I want to be part of a church that welcomes and comforts the marginalized.
I want to be part of the church that knows God’s name is mercy.
The other night, I watched a 2013 documentary called, “God Loves Uganda.” This film, broadcast on public television’s “Independent Lens” program, produced an almost physical revulsion in me. In it, Uganda debates and passes a bill to criminalize homosexuality and even considers the death penalty for repeated gay behavior.
Throughout the film, we see American evangelical Christians preaching in Uganda a strident anti-gay message, helping to stir up the crowds. We see the inevitable violence against gay people go without condemnation by the “good” Christians.
There are American Christians who do wonderful work in African nations. Many build hospitals and schools and preach and live a loving example of Jesus Christ.
But those who allowed themselves to be filmed in “God Loves Uganda” were hateful and dangerous, even while their young fresh-faced youth workers sang sweet Jesus songs. It occurred to me that evening that homophobes aren’t getting very far in the U.S., so they ply their hate in far-off lands.
Then I awoke two days later to the slaughter at the gay bar in Orlando, Florida. Although the issues were complex, including anti-American extremism and our crazy romance with assault rifles, it was also, clearly, an anti-LGBT assault.
Catholic leaders spoke out with sympathy for victims. But not everyone addressed the elephant in the room: who these victims were. Those who did acknowledge the LGBT community deserve our applause.
For example, Bishop Robert Lynch of St. Petersburg, Florida, wrote on his blog the Monday after the attack, “Sadly it is religion, including our own, that targets, mostly verbally, and also often breeds contempt for gays, lesbians and transgender people. Attacks today on LGBT men and women often plant the seed of contempt, then hatred, which can ultimately lead to violence.”
And Chicago Archbishop Blase Cupich wrote to an archdiocesan gay and lesbian outreach immediately after the massacre, “Know this: The Archdiocese of Chicago stands with you. I stand with you.”
Thank you to these leaders.
Commentary – June 9, 2016
—By Father Eugene Hemrick, Catholic News Service
Try to find humor in contradiction
Agitated over all the bizarre happenings in today’s life? How about reducing them to satire and enjoying the ironies they produce.
Consider that even though we have time-saving air travel and superfast automobiles, we find ourselves frequently in endless lines and in stop-and-go traffic with cranky horns. Ironically, our so-called speedy life more often than not is filled by idling and a hurry-and-wait existence.
Smartphones should be called superphones because they help save lives, keep us in contact with dear friends, and in many cases save money. Ironically, they also often turn loved ones into strangers even though they may be nearby.
Even if people walk side by side, they might as well be miles apart because people are glued to the phones instead of being glued to the person next to them.
Smartphones are the latest addiction with which compulsive chatterers need to fill their day. Their melodious rings may be music to the ear of some, but they don’t sound so sweet to those who have to endure the ill-timed annoying sounds coming from them.
A while ago, what some called home “entertainment centers” were truly an enjoyable form of entertainment. The bad side of them was that they produced an army of couch potatoes. Generations grew up sedentary, only knowing how to glare at screens.
Also consider that some feel we’ve reached the heights of freedom of speech because anyone is able to post on the internet whatever comes to mind. But not everything that is posted has worth and in many cases, it may not be true. It also may be used for evil purposes.
Music is intelligence in that it mimics speech and its ultimate purpose is raising the nobility of the human spirit. Yet much of today’s speech, unfortunately, is cacophony. It is an affront to intelligence and especially to dignity.
Championing human rights, multiculturalism and solidarity offer amazing promise for the future. Ironically, we still face their age-old opponents of self-righteousness, racism, intolerance, bigotry and narrow-mindedness. These are death blows to progress.
These are enjoyable ways to understand the absurd and it reminds us that, as the Book of Ecclesiastes says, there is a time to laugh.
Commentary – June 7, 2016
—Sister Constance Veit, l.s.p
Heroes of Religious Liberty
Each year since 2012, Catholics in the United States have observed the Fortnight for Freedom in preparation for Independence Day on July 4th. The theme set by the U.S. Bishops’ Conference for this year’s Fortnight is “Witnesses to Freedom.”
Fourteen men and women who bear witness to freedom in Christ – one for each day – have been proposed for our reflection during these two weeks. Thirteen of these figures have already passed from this world into heaven and the majority of them are martyrs. The lone “person” who is still alive? The Little Sisters of the Poor!
We Little Sisters were shocked to find ourselves on a list of freedom fighters. I began to realize the significance of this when I read a reflection on the Fortnight by Archbishop William E. Lori, chairman of the USCCB Ad Hoc Committee for Religious Liberty. “Reflecting on the lives of these great men and women can show us how we might serve as witnesses to freedom today,” he wrote. “They love their country, yet this love does not surpass their love for and devotion to Christ and his Church … By pondering the lives of these exemplary Christian witnesses, we can learn much of what it means to follow Jesus Christ in today’s challenging world. We pray that over these two weeks, the grace of God will help us to grow in wisdom, courage, and love, that we too might be faithful witnesses to freedom.”
We realize that in light of our Supreme Court case we Little Sisters of the Poor have become a symbol of courage to many people. As the bishops’ list of witnesses for freedom demonstrates, countless Christians down through the centuries, and in our own time, have shed their blood and given their lives for the faith.
I am both humbled and embarrassed to find us listed in their company, because I truly believe that our courage is quite relative. Our suffering is of the type that Pope Francis recently called “polite persecution.” After all, we Little Sisters have not been imprisoned or had to resist to the point of shedding blood!
I have always found the parable of the useless or unprofitable servants in Luke’s Gospel rather unpalatable, but in light of our current notoriety I have come to appreciate it. This is the parable where Jesus tells his apostles, “When you have done all you have been commanded, say, ‘We are unprofitable servants; we have done what we were obliged to do’” (Luke 17:10). Like the useless servants in the Gospel, we Little Sisters have done only what we should have done in standing up for life and religious liberty.
We profess to be daughters of the Church – how could we not uphold her teachings, especially when they touch on something as basic as the right to life? Surely, we never thought our cause would go all the way to the Supreme Court, but we believe that all happened according to God’s plan.
As I reflect back on the experiences of the last three years, I thank God for the vast cloud of witnesses who have supported us every step of this journey, beginning with our legal team at the Becket Fund, whose constant good cheer and professional expertise were heaven-sent. They are the real heroes. We also owe a huge debt of gratitude to all the people around the world who offered their prayers and sacrifices for our case.
Finally, we are indebted to our foundress, Saint Jeanne Jugan, and to the generations of Little Sisters who have gone before us, many of whom persevered through much more trying circumstances than anything we have had to face, including religious persecution. If we are a beacon for our contemporaries in this struggle for religious liberty, it is only because we stand on the shoulders of giants.
Sister Constance Veit is director of communications for the Little Sisters of the Poor.
Commentary – June 6, 2016
—Carolyn Woo, Catholic News Service
A different kind of ABCs
I recently had the privilege to deliver commencement speeches at a few Catholic universities and colleges. Humbled by the fact that few people remember what their commencement speakers intoned at these ceremonies, I tried to keep the message simple and, hopefully, partially memorable.
This year, I focused on the unforgettable starting points for all of our learning journeys: our ABCs. Do you remember how your mom told you when you started school to pay attention to your teachers? Let me revisit this concept.
To start, the A in the ABCs stands for attentiveness, particularly attentiveness to people. Lost in an environment with a lot of stimuli and tethered to devices that constantly beep for our response, how well do we pay attention to people?
Working on the assumption that we can multitask well, which science has debunked, we sandwich the conversation with a grandparent between snaps, tweets, texts, alerts.
We may be hearing her update on the cancer treatment, but with eyes scanning incoming messages and thoughts wandering about whom we want to hang out with.
We may miss the frailty, loneliness and spirit of the person who just said “everything is fine.”
Interactions are the birthplaces of understanding, love, loyalty and intimacy. They call for and deserve what is within each of us to give: undivided attention. And if we cannot pay proper attention to people, how do we pay attention to God? How do we place ourselves in the presence of God?
When we were young, to step into that new school, we had to be brave. So let the B stand for bravery, which we evoke for new scary endeavors. Will I succeed? Will I belong? Will I matter? What if I make a compete fool of myself?
We can only find and shape these answers by doing, trying, learning and getting up. It takes courage to admit that we are not always right, that we can hurt others’ feelings, that we can let people down.
It takes honesty to recognize the burden we place on others and grace to apologize. Be ready to pay for doing the right thing, honoring our integrity and protecting our soul. The good news is that we do not rely on ourselves alone.
It is God’s power that we draw from, God’s bounty that we rely on and the Holy Spirit who helps us become what God intends for each of us.
In the daily echoes of the playground monitor’s urging to play nice, I find the seeds of my C-word: compassion. Playing nice is the drill in our practice to make room for others, to have a sense of others, to know how to be with others.
It is indispensable training for our journey of success. Authentic leadership requires us to advance others to a better place, and we can seldom do that without empathy. People are not machines.
Jesus taught us that the sum of our efforts will be judged by how we treat others, particularly those who cross our paths and lack the essentials of a dignified existence.
Success is therefore not what we accumulate, but what we give away; not how high we climb, but how low we bend to heal those broken down by life; not what we do for our good, but what we do for the common good.
As the ABCs of our childhood have unlocked the world of knowledge for us, may these reframed ABCs give us new capacities for knowing: knowing the other, knowing life and knowing God.
Woo is president and CEO of Catholic Relief Services.
Commentary – June 6, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Creation as God’s gift
While much is being written and said about the rights of transgender students regarding their use of public restrooms and school locker rooms, there has been little or no mention of a point Pope Francis made which speaks directly to the issue by saying that men and women need to acknowledge their bodies as “God’s gift.”
In his encyclical Laudato Si, issued last year on care of the environment, Pope Francis says “The acceptance of our bodies as God’s gift is vital for welcoming and accepting the entire world as a gift from the Father and our common home.”
In the recent exhortation Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of Love), our Holy Father writes that gender ideology “denies the difference and reciprocity in nature of a man and a woman and envisages a society without sexual difference… Let us not fall into the sin of trying to replace the Creator.”
He continues: “Whereas thinking that we enjoy absolute power over our own bodies turns, often subtly, into thinking that we enjoy absolute power over creation.”
The vast majority of married couples who await the birth of a new baby choose to learn the gender of their unborn child as soon as possible. In most cases, they are joyful about the expectant birth of “him or her.” If there are other children in the family, they, too, are eager to welcome a new brother or sister.
People might ask them “Are you going to have a girl or a boy?” It’s a normal question.
After the baby’s birth, Catholics normally seek baptism of their young child and are asked the baby’s name by the priest or deacon during the rite. Most baptismal names clearly identify the biological sex of the baby.
In Illinois a transgender student who was born a girl but now identifies as a boy wanted to use school facilities for boys and filed a complaint when Williamsvillle High School provided a private bathroom for her.
The student said “It made me feel like I was being treated differently and ostracized.” The Illinois Department of Human Rights sided with the student and now anyone can have access to the restroom or locker room of the gender they identify with emotionally, not the gender they were born with.
As a response to what he feels is “common sense turned on its head in our culture,” Bishop Thomas Paprocki, of the Diocese of Springfield in Illinois, has written a letter to his “brothers and sisters in Christ,” asking Catholics in his diocese to respect teachings of the Catholic Church “in their use of facilities in our churches and schools.”
Bishop Paprocki also asks them to show compassion, especially to children and adolescents, who may be confused as to who they are.
In the Diocese of Richmond, the issue of restroom and locker room facilities for transgender students has not become an issue. There are separate facilities for girls and boys. No student has yet identified himself or herself as being transgender. Since Catholic schools receive no federal funding, any government direction would have no bearing on rulings which do affect public schools.
Commentary – May 27, 2016
–Bill Dodds, Catholic News Service
Marriage advice that lasts
In 2003, my wife and I had been married for 29 years when we wrote a column on marriage that offered tips for newlyweds.
Remember, we wrote, that the sacrament is called “marriage,” not “wedding.” Also, continue to transform your wedding day promises into everyday compromises. Be fiscally prudent. Avoid being a “shopaholic” or a miser. When the hard times arrive, be on the same team. Make it “us against them.”
Keep in mind that thoughtfulness and generosity remain the keys to happy romance. Don’t hesitate to get professional help (for your car, your health or your marriage).
Also important is praying for each and praying with each other. Stay friends, we said, and laugh whenever possible but never at the expense of another, especially your spouse. Celebrate your anniversary! One year is a big deal. And, finally, don’t eat the top tier of the wedding cake that has been in the freezer for a year. Ick.
Then later in 2009, a couple of months after our 35th anniversary, we wrote: We’re not saying you don’t already know these things, but, when you’re tired, when you’re frustrated, when you’re angry — and all those things happen to every husband and wife — it can help to return to some of the basics.
Remember that you’re not competitors. If one person “wins,” both lose. Part of your role is graciously to help your spouse become a better person, and part is to accept your spouse’s help graciously, to grow toward becoming the person God created each of you to be: his beautiful son or daughter.
Nagging is not gracious, and exactly who you think your spouse should be may not be who God created him or her to be.
Like a fire or a garden, marriage is a “living” thing. It needs to be tended regularly and that takes deliberate effort. Left alone or ignored, it can turn into nothing but ashes or weeds, accompanied by the deep regret of what might have been.
Laugh with each other, not at each other. Pray with each other and for each other. Talk to each other every day of every week of every month of every year of every decade of every half century and more. At some point in the distant future, smile, shake your heads and offer a little advice when there’s a new bride and groom in your family, your parish, your neighborhood or workplace.
Now, in 2016, the year of our 42nd anniversary, I look at those two lists and I think, “Yes, we got it right. Those are solid, practical suggestions.”
And it comforts me to realize that even though Monica has died, over those many years we learned that a happy marriage is a bit of heaven on earth. We experienced that. And now I know that makes widowhood a bit of purgatory on earth. It’s only temporary and it’s nothing that a loved one in heaven can’t fix.
Commentary – May 25, 2016
–John Garvey, Catholic News Service
Mary in our increasingly secular world
The month of May has been dedicated to the Virgin Mary for centuries — so long, in fact, that the precise origin of this Catholic devotion is lost in the mists of time.
Still, it is a fitting devotion during what is arguably the most beautiful and colorful month of the year in most of the Northern Hemisphere.
Living as we do at The Catholic University of America, with the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception at the corner of our campus, our students, faculty and staff have constant reminders of the Marian devotions I grew up with. But I sometimes wonder whether very many of today’s young Catholics learn them as we once did.
When I was a boy at St. Joseph School in my hometown, we had May crownings and prayed the rosary throughout the month. We recited the Angelus at lunchtime.
We sang Marian hymns (“Hail Holy Queen,” “Immaculate Mary,” “O Sanctissima,” “Bring Flowers of the Rarest”) at daily and all-school Masses. Today many parochial schools (like my own) are closed. Those that are open have many fewer students.
That’s not the only cultural change we have seen. Faith is a less visible feature of public life. It is crowded into private spaces, churches and homes. And as we find profane ways of talking about our affairs, the sacred has become a less palpable presence.
We incline more and more to picture God as the kind of abstraction that appealed to Thomas Jefferson — a deity, a watchmaker, a prime mover who sits far above his creation, uninvolved if not disinterested.
I say “we,” but I am guilty of some cultural myopia in saying that. The Catholic Church in the United States is becoming increasingly Hispanic, and devotion to Mary is very real in the fastest-growing sector of American Catholics. The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate reports that two-thirds of Hispanic/Latino
Catholics have a statue or picture of Mary at home.
Pope Francis, a native of Argentina, is typical. He began the Year of Mercy on the feast of the Immaculate Conception. The bull announcing it said, “Let us address her in the words of the ‘Salve Regina.'” (In case you’ve forgotten, it begins “Hail, Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy …”) The Holy Father kicked off the 2013 World Youth
Day with Mass at the Shrine of Our Lady of Aparecida.
I have not been to Aparecida, but not long ago I visited the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe, and I was struck by the frank devotion of the thousands of pilgrims. It reminded me of the youthful enthusiasm we had at St. Joseph School, but with this difference: Mary had been there, up on the hill above the church. You could feel her presence, and it made prayer much more of a conversation.
This faith is a great gift to the American church. It is much more Catholic than the ceremonial deism our culture (when it thinks of religion at all) is drifting toward.
Our attachment to Mary reminds us that belief in the Incarnation is what makes us Christians. Jesus was a real person who was born to Mary, lived, died and rose again. Mary was a real mother whose love keeps showing up in the world, to remind us to imitate her love for her son.
Sometimes her appearance takes the form of great miracles, as at Guadalupe, Aparecida, Lourdes and Fatima. Sometimes she reaches us in the family rosary or in a bunch of lilacs gathered in her honor — especially in May.
Garvey is president of The Catholic University of America in Washington.
Commentary – May 23, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Confirmation: a passage on the faith journey
Hundreds of teens in parishes of the Diocese of Richmond recently received the sacrament of Confirmation which is meant to be an affirmation of their Catholic Christian faith.
Both Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo and Msgr. Mark Richard Lane, Vicar General, were on the Confirmation circuit which in the Diocese of Richmond begins right after Easter and ends with Pentecost or soon thereafter.
The vast majority of the youths who were confirmed realize the importance of their “yes” to the Catholic Church and view the rite of Confirmation as a continuing passage on a faith journey which will never end until the Lord calls them to their heavenly home.
A very small few were likely confirmed only because of parental pressure and may look upon their Confirmation as a means to an end. In the past, others who felt that way more or less said “I don’t have to go to Mass anymore. I just got confirmed.”
It may not be this simplistic, but don’t think it hasn’t been said.
What a shame! It’s disappointing not so much because they are disregarding the real purpose of Confirmation, but because they see no connection with Christ’s message and how adhering to it in daily life helps one with the ups and downs of life. Faith is God’s gift to us, but since God gives us free will, we can either accept or reject it.
Who would want to miss out on what might be likened to a safety net to help us when we are faced with tragedy or sorrow? Friends and family can and want to be consoling, but we need the strength that only comes from God who loves and cares for us. This inner strength has to be developed over time. It should never be dismissed by thoughts like “I’ve got it all. I’ve now been confirmed.”
Most likely any who would think like this would have a misguided understanding of Christ as Savior and Redeemer and any roots in faith would be shallow at best.
In the sacrament of Confirmation, the baptized person is “sealed with the Gift of the Holy Spirit” by the laying on of hands by a bishop or his representative. The oil of the Sacred Chrism used is the same oil used at Baptism.
No, confirmation is not an ending. The sacrament is meant to foster a desire to continue to grow and develop as Christians.
Prayer is key to it all. But it takes time and effort to develop a prayer life. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it is easy if we make a conscious effort to talk with Jesus.
We learn to walk as children by taking one or two steps at a time, usually guided by a parent who loves us. As we mature our steps become more secure. So it is with prayer. As we move from a few words of praise or seek guidance on what we should do or not do, we become more confident and trusting in our time with the Lord. We receive comfort and strength from this encounter.
Our young people who were recently confirmed are to be congratulated for wanting to grow as Catholic Christians. Let’s give them our support as they continue on the journey.
Commentary – May 9, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Slavery at Georgetown
Faced with mounting debt to keep Georgetown University open, Father Thomas Mulledy, president of the Jesuit institution, felt he would ease the university’s financial crisis by selling 272 slaves from Jesuit-run plantations in Maryland to two planation owners in Louisiana. The debt, according to records, was $47,654.54.
The bill of sale was dated Nov. 29, 1838. The slaves, who ranged in age from babies to the elderly, were taken from the plantations in Maryland to the port of Alexandria and forced to board boats in crowded conditions to await a new life with “new owners.”
“Know all men by these presents, that I, Thomas F. Mulledy of Georgetown, District of Columbia, have bargained & sold, & by these presents do bargain, sell & deliver unto Henry Johnson, of the Parish of St. James, State of Louisiana, the following negroes,” he wrote in the certificate of sale.
It seems incredible in this day and age that any American, let alone a Catholic priest who promoted higher education, would sanction such a deal. But it happened.
Father Mulledy directed that the slave families not be separated and that all of the money from the sale go toward Jesuit education. But even still, why was the sale even made? And how trustworthy was Mr. Johnson, the new owner, in following out the stipulation of not separating family members?
With this shameful episode as part of its history, Georgetown has sought to disassociate itself from two Jesuit presidents who were involved. The former Mulledy Hall, which was built as a dormitory, has been renamed Freedom Hall. McSherry Hall, named for former president Father William McSherry, who advised the sale, is now called Remembrance Hall.
More obviously needs to be done. Some have suggested that “descendants” of these 272 slaves be given scholarships to Georgetown. Some have suggested that cash payments to these slave descendants be made.
But how would the university be able to determine who are these descendants after more than 175 years since the sale? Just using words like “the sale” remind one of the inhumane way African slaves were treated.
Georgtown University President John De Gioia has established a Working Group on Slavery, Memory and Reconciliation to make recommendations on how Georgetown might publicly recognize the past wrong and address concerns of how to make reparation.
It may seem like a timid step, but ongoing dialogue about why something is wrong and how we can counteract it is always a start. At least it gets people engaged and focused on a forward approach.
Commentary – April 25, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
It’s never too late
This hand-written note was recently mailed to St. Rose of Lima and Korean Martyrs Catholic Church in Hampton along with 100 ounces of silver coins possibly worth $1,500.
The man had, who did not identify himself, used a return address of a Catholic church in Tennessee. Jerry Cranfill, chairman of the parish council, phoned the church office in Tennessee and spoke to the pastor who said he knew nothing about the unexpected gift to St. Rose and Korean Martyrs. He suggested that the church follow the expressed wishes of the giver and help those in need.
There are many possible scenarios of what might have happened to urge the giver to make amends and seek forgivesness. But it is likely that the man had attended a penitential service during Lent and confessed the sin of the 1950s theft to a priest who suggested a penance.
In taking the action he did he was finally able to release himself from the burden of guilt which had obviously hung over him for more than half a century. It is good to know that it is never too late to seek forgiveness and receive absolution.
While the Hampton parish is planning to have the silver coins assessed by a professional silver dealer to know their full value, the important thing, Mr. Cranfill feels, is that a sinner has come back to the Church, expressed his sorrow for sin and wanted reconciliation.
The important thing for all of us is that the sacrament of penance is always available to help us better live the Christian life. Besides, we always feel better when we release ourselves from any burden. We know that God loves us and this is one way He expresses that love.
Commentary – April 11, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Why would any committed Catholic scold an elderly member of the Little Sisters of the Poor for smiling when she unexpectedly posed for a photo with Virginia’s governor at the religious community’s annual fundraising dinner back in February at the Commonwealth Club in Richmond?
This happened to Sister Agatha as she was returning to St. Joseph’s Home after the dinner. The gist of the criticism was something like “you and the governor looked like life-long friends the way both of you were smiling. How could you?”
Governor Terry McAuliffe had been invited to the dinner and agreed to come to the pre-dinner reception although he declined to stay for dinner. The Little Sisters had engaged a photographer to take candid photos of the approximately 300 guests and also got photos of the governor shaking hands with some of them.
“Sister, come on. Get in the picture with me,” Gov. McAuliffe coaxed Sister Agatha, who entered the Little Sisters 64 years ago in Dublin. She complied, they both smiled for the camera and then the two parted company as Sister entered the dining room to take a seat at her assigned table. But her action offended some people who quickly scolded her.
The Catholic Virginian also was harshly criticized for having a photo of Gov. McAuliffe on its front page with an article on the Virginia Vespers service at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart on Feb. 17. The criticism stemmed from the governor’s well-known pro-choice stance on abortion and funding of Planned Parenthood. Both these views are contrary to the Church’s pro-life position of preserving life from womb to tomb.
Some felt that the photo on the front page of The Catholic Virginian presented him in the light of being a strong Catholic. The fact that he is a Catholic was not mentioned. The photo was published in honor of the dignity of the office of Governor, not the man himself. Virginia’s Catholic bishops invited him and he accepted. An usher escorted Gov. and Mrs. McAuliffe to the front pew where they were clearly visible.
Obviously, Gov. McAuliffe, a Catholic, is aware of the Church’s teachings. But the service was open to people of all faiths who had been invited to pray for “the people of the Commonwealth of Virginia, particularly the poor and the vulnerable, that our state will ensure respect for all human life and uphold human dignity.”
Among the intercessions were “for all those who serve in elected office, that they may lead with courage and wisdom, and reflect the timeless truth that the moral health of a society is judged by how it treats the most vulnerable, the unborn, the elderly, the poor, the outcast, the immigrant and the refugee and the prisoner.”
In our zeal to adhere to Church teachings in enactment of our laws, particularly protection of the unborn, it is important to show respect to those who hold office — even when we don’t always agree. Let’s continue to pray for what God shows us is right and hope that our prayers will be answered.
Commentary – March 28, 2016
—Stephen Previtera, The Catholic Virginian
Lest We Forget
In her lifetime, the Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta saw more than enough suffering and death. Described as the “Angel of Mercy” Mother Teresa provided us with a shining example to live by. No matter by what standard we measure faith, few would argue that her self-sacrifice for the poor and unwanted went beyond what most of us could ever endure.
She had witnessed the aftermath of the Great Calcutta Killings in August of 1946 that saw widespread slaughter (an estimated 4,000 killed) caused by mob battles in the city between Hindus and Muslims. She understood what religious persecution meant, having witnessed it first hand.
Only a month later, in September 1946, an inner calling brought forth from this seemingly ordinary Albanian nun the beginnings of a personal journey. A great mission of mercy to aid the poor sprang forth, eventually bringing Mother Teresa’s work to the attention of the world, earning her the respect of religious leaders of every faith, the love of the many suffering souls of the Third World, and St. John Paul II’s own observation that her life was “a total gift to the poor.” Mother Teresa saw the need and endured.
One of her crowning achievements was the Missionaries of Charity, established in 1950, and now running many homes for the indigent worldwide.
On March 4, the elder care home run by Missionaries of Charity in Yemen was the target of a murderous assault by extremists, identified as ISIS. According to a report, the terrorists were on a specific mission to find and kill the five nuns and any other Christians working at the facility.
Four sisters were slain in a most brutal fashion, but the fifth, a mother superior, having hidden, escaped. A Salesian priest, residing on the campus of the Mission after his church had been burned last September, was kidnapped and had not been heard from as of this writing.
Afterward, Sister Sally, the surviving fifth and only remaining nun of the elder care home, was forced by the local police to depart Yemen for her own protection, over the desperate protests of the residents.
As Pope Francis announces Mother Teresa will be made a saint in September, we must recognize that her “saintly” efforts were inspired by the call to help the persecuted, no matter what the cost.
Sister Sally will likely not be called to sainthood, but her need to stay with her residents, even at the potential cost of her own life, provides us with the same example as Mother Teresa.
We do not have to be saints, but we must recognize and remember the sacrifices of so many today in the name of our Christian faith. They endure still.
With the attacks last week in Brussels, all faiths are under assault by those bent on using the name of God as a tool of destruction. The vast majority of believers refute that premise, choosing instead to worship a loving, protective and forgiving God. How fitting that at Easter we celebrate the glory of the risen Lord and eternal life. Ideologies of suicidal death – by contrast – are sustained only by more death. And that, in time, is itself unsustainable.
Commentary – March 14, 2016
— Father Eugene Hemrick, Catholic News Service
Are our values upside down?
Not only were those with whom I spoke on Capitol Hill in Washington dismayed, they were irate about the political wrangling over the appointment of Antonin Scalia’s successor before the Supreme Court justice, who died Feb. 13, was laid to rest.
The outcry raises a critical question about our times: Is the abnormal behavior of our age now considered normal behavior? Have our values been turned upside down?
When a person dies, the first priority is to comfort the deceased person’s family, friends and colleagues, who are touched by the death of a loved one. It’s not only normal but a respectful practice to put aside business concerns and instead bow our heads in silence and pray for the eternal rest of the deceased.
At moments like this, it’s also normal to take our mortality more seriously, to reflect on the ultimate meaning of life and what counts most in it.
Is it any wonder that so many are angered by all the talk about a replacement at a time when the moment calls for putting aside hype and politics until a person is mourned?
Is it any wonder that many are outraged that people sound off publicly about what should or should not happen next, giving the impression that they couldn’t care less about the deceased; when people take advantage of a sacred moment to score selfish political points?
How often have we seen families fight bitter battles over who has a right to the inheritance, thus demeaning the sacredness that death demands? When this pettiness happens, we cannot but feel: This is out of order. It is disgusting and reflects a dysfunctional family and self-centeredness at its worst!
What in particular causes abnormal behavior to become accepted as normal and ethical values to fall by the wayside? It comes down to hardness of heart that puts selfish needs and concerns first.
It’s rigidity leading to self-righteousness and dismissing values and ethical standards of behavior. Hardness of heart refuses to comprehend that sacred moments are not a time for advancing a career.
No doubt many mourners of Antonin Scalia saw in his death a sacred moment requiring respect for the person, his family and friends. With heads bowed in silence and hearts filled with compassion, and with prayers for them, the moment was celebrated with dignity.
Other mourners have undoubtedly gone through many of the same motions. They are motions, however, lacking in warmth, heartfelt sympathy and genuine compassion.
Commentary – February 29, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
A faith-filled journey
Each comes with their own unique story.
We are referring to the 365 catechumens throughout the Diocese of Richmond who took another step forward in their journey of faith at the Rite of Election held the third weekend of February.
The Rite of Election was celebrated at five churches where they had gathered with others who want to be baptized and receive the Church’s other sacraments at Easter. The photo above is at St. Andrew’s in Roanoke. The catechumens have heard the Catholic Christian message and liked what they heard.
Like many who make an initial inquiry about taking a new step forward, often the first hurdle is taking the initial action to ask questions. Some have done this with a friend or family member. Others called the number of a nearby Catholic parish and asked “What do I have to do about becoming a Catholic?”
What motivated their action? Was it because they had seen and heard “the Good News” from Catholic friends, neighbors or colleagues at work who displayed a sense of inner peace and joy when living their faith? Did they attend Sunday Mass out of curiosity and found an environment which made them think they had been missing something in their life and now perhaps had found it?
The catechumens who come forward are a sign to committed Catholics who know that they already have what others want. Even long-time Catholics who are steeped in the Church’s tradition are challenged to renew their commitment to ongoing conversion which never ends. The old term “converts to the faith” should apply to all of us in a way because we need to seek daily conversion until we cross the finish line.
The finish line is reached when the Lord brings us to eternal life at the end of our earthly journey. The catechumens have now heard the call and we need to remind ourselves that we heard it as well and already answered it.
Commentary – February 15, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
How would you know?
To most of his fellow students who know him at Virginia Tech, David Eisenhauer was a quiet young man who was a diligent student and proud of the fact that he was on the college’s cross country team. His college roommate told The Washington Post that Eisenhauer, an engineering student, “seemed very excited to be at Tech” and that he divided his regular routine between classes with studying and running practices twice a day.
Would this strike any outside observer as unusual? His routine, as described by his roommate, would seem to be that of a conscientious student.
David did not do anything that would cause suspicion that he might be contemplating murder, his roommate said. He did point out that David “was just out late at night,” but that night a 13-year-old girl, Nicole Lovell from Blacksburg, was killed. Mr. Eisenhauer is now charged with murdering her. A fellow student at Tech, Natalie Keepers, has been charged as an accomplice before and after the murder and helping to dispose of the girl’s body.
We have all come across individuals who are private persons and do little to disclose who they are and what makes them tick. This is their choice and others cannot expect to know them when these individuals put up a barrier which in a sense shows they want to be left alone. Unless there are dangerous signs of improper behavior which infringe on the rights of others, they deserve to be left alone.
Nicole, on the other hand, did show signs which were worrisome. At age 13, she was eager to tell friends her age that she “was dating” Eisenhauer who she had met on Facebook. “She always talked of running away with him,” said another 13-year-old girl who was Nicole’s classmate.
But who would know that this contact would lead to murder? Parents of 13-year-old students might quietly shrug if their teenager said a friend was in danger. “Oh, you’re exaggerating. Nothing is going to happen to Nicole,” a mother or father might say.
What has since come to light is that 13-year-old Nicole was the target of bullying at her school in Blacksburg. She had already been hospitalized as a younger child with lymphoma and had a liver transplant. As would be expected, bullying was painful for her and she was depressed. She talked of cutting herself, a serious sign of disorder. This was clearly a call for help. She seemed to have a close circle of friends and her parents dearly loved her, but apparently no one thought her problems were life-threatening. But then her life was taken from her and her parents and friends by two college students. Again, how would you know what was about to happen?
One small lesson from this tragic story is that parents and teachers need to watch out for bullying — even if they think it isn’t dangerous.
“She (Nicole) was looking for someone who would give her attention and give her some compassion,” a classmate said, adding that bullying was painful. “A lot of people talked behind her back. They talked about the scar on her throat.”
Commentary – February 1, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
More men needed as deacons
Fortunately for both the laity and the clergy of the Diocese of Richmond, Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo has called for the continuation of the Permanent Diaconate formation program in the fall of 2017.
Both the laity and clergy benefit from the deacons’ ministry. There are currently 115 men serving as deacons in their respective parishes. As ordained clergy, they can baptize, witness sacramental marriages, bring Holy Communion to Catholics in hospitals, nursing homes or to the homebound.
They also are helpful to their parish priests because they can prepare couples for marriage, parents of infants who seek baptism for their child and conduct funeral services in lieu of Mass of Christian Burial. They can also preach the homily at Sunday Mass. This is a major help to priests who are already super busy in full-time ministry.
All but a very few permanent deacons are volunteers who receive no monetary payment for their ministry.
Many of them have full-time jobs in the general marketplace. Most of them are married and have families to support. College education costs for their children are among the financial burdens they incur just by virtue of being a father.
A deacon’s wife is supportive of her husband’s vital role in parish ministry. The wives have already showed their support which enabled their husbands to begin the four-year formation process. Without that, a man would not be able to participate.
Let’s face it — a deacon, his wife and children make a sacrifice when their husband and father must leave the home for ministry in the parish. Until his ordination, the deacon candidate’s schedule includes one Friday night and all-day Saturday each month for formation classes. Those who live a distance from Richmond have to add travel time to the weekends.
They also have a financial cost of being in formation. Deacon candidates are expected to pay one-third of the tuition costs. The other two-thirds is paid by the Diocese.
Prison ministry has developed in smaller parishes in outlying areas where correctional facilities are located. While permanent deacons do not seek status in their ministry, their role as clergy gives them easier access to inmates by corrections officials. Their presence often fosters a new concern by parishioners who get involved in prison ministry led by the deacon and allow the Catholic Church to be present in prisons.
The Diocese of Richmond will continue to flourish with more deacons. Let’s be supportive by affirming the deacons already in ministry.
Commentary – January 18, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Patriotic words challenged
“God bless America.”
These three brief but meaningul words are no longer to be said as part of a morning routine by students at Glenview Elementary School in Haddon Heights, N.J. This comes after a challenge by the American Civil Liberties Union.
Although students at the school were never required to utter “God bless America” at the end of the daily Pledge of Allegiance, most did so. The patriotic add-on was begun soon after the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001. Two teachers, who are no longer at the school, wanted to show support to the first responders and victims of 9/11.
Sam Sassano, principal of the school which has 235 students, wrote parents that the daily practice of saying “God bless America” is being challenged by the ACLU which calls it unconstitutional. The principal’s letter says the school’s attorneys were warned by the ACLU that “invoking God’s blessing as a daily ritual is unconstitutional and in violation of the Establishment Clause since it allegedly promotes religious over non-religious beliefs, especially with the young, impressionable children.”
As one would expect, the principal’s letter riled many parents. But Mr. Sassano seemed to soften the blow by saying, that in his opinion, the practice of asking God’s blessing on one’s country is “fundamentally patriotic in nature” and does not promote religion among the students.
Not so, the ACLU claims.
“The greatest care must be taken to avoid the appearance of governmental endorsement in schools, especially elementary schools, given the impressionable age of the children under the school’s care and authority,” the ACLU letter states.
As a result, the principal felt he had no choice but to not permit the words “God bless America” as a class action following the Pledge of Allegiance.
Even the Pledge itself contains the words “under God.” One can be sure that there are some Americans who want to see these two words stricken.
While no students should be required to say “God bless America” as a daily class routine, putting a muzzle on the brief blessing limits one’s freedom of speech.
While the school cannot be seen as initiating the blessing as a class action, individual students are not forbidden from using the phrase if they so choose. Nothing can prevent an individual student from saying “God bless America.” If the teacher or anyone else objects, they can remain silent.
In fact, some students might even see more meaning in the words “God bless America” when that freedom of speech is taken away from them.
One upset mother pointed out that the words “In God we trust” are printed on American currency.
“Isn’t the person who complained out there spending that money?” she asked rhetorically.
Commentary – January 4, 2016
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Advocates must be heard
Unlike previous years when the Virginia General Assembly was in session, there will no longer be the one-day event known as Catholic Advocacy Day.
The spirit and purpose of what was known as Catholic Advocacy Day is still important. In fact, a new approach will hopefully expand grass roots participation among Catholics who seek legislation which helps the poor and upholds Christian values.
Attendance at Catholic Advocacy Day, sponsored by the Virginia Catholic Conference, always hinged on the weather conditions of the day. Rain or snow was often a factor which cut down on the number of people from parishes and Catholic schools who had to travel long distances to get to Virginia’s capital with the purpose of seeing their elected state senators and delegates and urge them to vote for or not support proposed laws.
The Virginia Catholic Conference was most effective in explaining the reasons for the stand it took. Catholic advocates were given a list of talking points meant to help them discuss the issues in an intelligent manner and show why they were asking for a senator’s or delegate’s support to pass or defeat a specific law. The VCC helped set up appointments to see the legislators from their district.
But in reality, often that person was not in his or her office at the appointed time. Advocates then had to address their concerns to a legislative aide and hope that he or she would relay their views to the elected official.
With prayer as a background and impetus for being a Catholic advocate, Catholic legislators and political leaders from other denominations, and both major political parties as well, are invited to join diocesan and parish leaders at a Vespers service on Wednesday, Feb. 17, at 5 p.m. at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart.
The invitation is being extended by Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo of Richmond and Bishop Paul S. Loverde of Arlington, both of whom will be present.
Those who attend may wish to mingle after the Vespers service at a reception featuring wine and appetizers. This may be an opportunity to get to know your state senator or delegate in a prayerful and relaxed setting.
An opening might be made to let him or her know that we take our civic responsibility seriously and we want to follow up to gain their support on issues we feel are important.
Catholics may also visit the offices of the Virginia Catholic Conference in Richmond on either Tuesday, Jan. 26, or Thursday, Feb. 4. Here they will meet informally with VCC staff and receive a packet of current issues along with talking points to explain why the VCC feels the way it does.
With a national presidential election this coming November, it is important that Catholics stay involved in the legislative process.
Commentary – December 21, 2015
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Are ‘they’ ‘bad people?’
The Gospel command of “love your neighbor” is not always easy for many people. Some who find this command difficult adamantly pass this off with the excuse that “they,” meaning a designated group of humanity, are “bad people.”
Fortunately, painting an entire group of people with the same brush as bad or evil — at least for Christians, followers of Christ —is not the right response to acts of terrorism. And yet we see it almost every time after individuals or groups of people from a minority commit a violent act.
We now know that two individuals who claimed to be followers of the Muslim faith were responsible for the deaths of 16 people in a planned attack in San Bernardino, Calif. This attack was rightfully denounced by Americans who were outraged at the violence directed at innocent victims and shared the grief the victims’ family members suffered. It was to be expected that some Americans would blame all Muslims for the violence.
These occasions of terrorism are horrible. They are not to be condoned in any way. However, we have to resist blaming all Muslims as the scapegoat and characterize them as evil.
For this reason, Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo was among a small group of clergy and civic leaders of Virginia at a Richmond press conference Dec. 17 initiated by the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities.
While to some people the name may smack of being politically correct, it is part of the same group first known as the National Conference of Christians and Jews. One of its main objectives is to erase religious discrimination.
Think back to a little more than 100 years ago when Catholic immigrants were the target of bigotry. A popular name for this group were “the Know Nothings,” derived from the fact that many Europeans coming to American shores did not speak English. Even the Irish, who spoke English with an “Irish brogue,” were often scorned. Signs like “No Irish need apply” were common in cities like Boston and New York where so many of the Irish immigrants settled.
Research shows that bigoted atttitudes toward Arab and Muslim Americans by their fellow Americans is continuing to increase. As a result, many in this minority group arouse suspicion of being terrorists or supporters of terrorism.
In fact, there have been demonstrations by Muslim Americans denouncing terrorism. They want to let others know that Muslims are peaceful people.
“We stand up and want to affirm our support for them,” Bishop DiLorenzo responded when asked why he attended the press conference. “After all, we’re all one family in God. We need to love our neighbor.”
Commentary – December 7, 2015
—A Statement from our Bishop, Most Rev. Francis X. DiLorenzo
‘Spotlight’ brings painful reminder to abuse victims and families
In November the film “Spotlight,” about the Boston Globe investigation that uncovered child sexual abuse in the Church, was released to theaters nationwide.
“We acknowledge the important role of the Globe reporters who uncovered this horrible issue for necessary action,” said Bishop Francis X. DiLorenzo. “We also understand the release of this film may serve as a painful reminder to survivors of sexual abuse by clergy, as well as their loved ones, all of whom who have been grievously injured by this evil.
We know the whole Church has also suffered because of these crimes against innocent children.
Since 2002, when the abuse was first revealed, the Catholic Church in the United States and The Church in the Diocese of Richmond have worked diligently to implement the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People.
In addition, the Diocese implemented the Safe Environment Regulations, which provide a procedure and structure to address allegations of sexual abuse of minors. These regulations also include a child protection program to include safe environment training (VIRTUS) and background screening for all diocesan clergy, employees and volunteers working with minors.
In 11 years we have trained and conducted background screenings on more than 40,000 adults and have remained in full compliance with the Charter.
I join my brother bishops and Pope Francis in again extending profound apologies for this abuse, and for the Church’s sometimes shamefully inadequate response at that time.
As your Bishop, I continue to ask and pray for survivors’ forgiveness and for God’s healing touch on all His children and His Church.
Through diligent efforts, prayer and God’s grace, we continue to live our belief that all life is precious and must be protected.
Commentary – November 23, 2015
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Keep Christ in Christmas
As Advent approaches and Christmas draws near, we will see newspaper ads and TV commercials hyping terrific sales for merchandise with bargain prices to attract consumers to buy clothing and other items as Christmas gifts.
This is to be expected because Christmas holiday sales can make up more than half a merchant’s income for the year.
Some department stores and auto dealerships require sales personnel to greet prospective buyers with “Happy Holidays” or “Season’s Greetings” as a means of spreading holiday cheer. This came to light a few years ago when I responded to “Happy Holidays” from a smiling sales clerk by saying “Merry Christmas.” The woman almost sheepishly replied “Merry Christmas” and then told me that she and others in this major department store must give a generic holiday greeting.
One can only assume that wishing another a Merry Christmas might be offensive to non-Christians who might resent a greeting for a holiday they do not observe. Stores with disgruntled customers might choose to shop elsewhere. The profit margin for the merchant shrinks.
The same rationale motivates many people who send Christmas cards to family and friends. They select cards which again wish others well with “Happy Holidays” and “Season’s Greetings.” Sometimes the cards will have illustrations of snow scenes or a jolly Santa Claus but the word Christmas is omitted.
As I write this, many councils of the Knights of Columbus are selling boxes of Christmas cards at parish churches before and after Sunday Mass. The face of the cards feature a Nativity scene or the Blessed Mother holding the Christ child.
As one opens the card in the Christmas Beatitudes series, the words “May the Holy Spirit of the Christ Child born this Christmas Day rest upon you. And may this Good News live within you to share with all you love and meet throughout the bright New Year.” How appropriate.
The cards are part of the Keep Christ in Christmas campaign initiated by the Knights of Columbus. Purchasing the cards supports the good work these Catholic gentlemen do throughout the year and stress the true meaning of Christmas for Christians. Why would we not want to send them to friends and family?
Commentary – November 9, 2015
—Colin Kearney, Special to the Catholic Virginian
Let’s call abortion what it really is
“Social justice begins in the womb.”
These words from Priests for Life’s media flyers seemed to echo through my head as I arrived at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Waynesboro for Fr. Denis Wilde’s Pro-Life Mass and presentation.
As assistant director for Priests for Life and an accomplished pianist, Father Wilde certainly boasted an impressive resume, yet all of that would be put to the test once more for the crowd of youth that gathered on the evening of October 26 to hear him speak on abortion.
After Mass, the youth first enjoyed pizza. Then Father Wilde shocked many of us when he cited the horrific number of babies killed through abortion. He compared those 1.21 million children who are aborted in the U.S. each year to the vast number of deaths from the Holocaust, and to the 1,354,644 American soldiers killed in all of the wars since The War of Independence.
Father Wilde had three main points. He cited the often heard argument of abortion being “a women’s right to choose.”
In factually establishing the life of a child in the womb, we should also use words like mothers and fathers rather than “women or boyfriends.” This is particularly important, he said, when referring to the mother.
This simple change in a word can make a big difference by forcing pro-abortion supporters to acknowledge the existence of a living child in the womb, perhaps changing the heart and mind of a mother considering an abortion.
Father Wilde next attacked the idea that abortion is “a woman’s right,”contending that all too often mothers are pressured against their will to have an an abortion. They feel they have no other choice.
In speaking of the rights of the father, he asserted that parenthood is a responsibility rather than a right. The true right belongs to that of the unborn baby.
These rights of the unborn babies, killed through abortion, can be related to the American Declaration of Independence and its famous statement concerning “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” Each and every one of these innocent children killed has been unjustly robbed of his or her most basic right, that of life.
Father Wilde stated that in a culture focused on being politically correct, we all too often steer away from the word “abortion” by using the term “choice,” especially when that term is associated with a good and beneficial action. Yet abortion is neither of these, and the word “choice”is far too vague to use when we are speaking of the life or death of a human being.
If abortion really were good or beneficial to anyone, then its supporters would not shy away from calling it what it really is rather than trying to hide behind a false name.
(Colin Kearney, a high school student, is a member of St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Staunton.)
Commentary – October 26, 2015
—Steve Neill, The Catholic Virginian
Students learn about albinos
In conjunction with World Mission Sunday, observed by Catholics in the United States Oct. 18, seniors at Peninsula Catholic High School in Newport News created a video to raise awareness about the killings and abuse of albino children in Tabora and Tanzania.
This is a topic which does not get much press in our country and little is known about albanism, a genetic disorder caused by a deficiency of melanin. There are certainly albinos in our own country who likely are stared at because they look different. Staring with the sense of disdain or even to pique one’s curiosity is wrong. Doing so might cause a feeling of inferiority by those who are albinos.
Unfortunately the problem for albinos in Tabora and Tanzania goes much deeper than staring. There they risk being killed by their own citizens because their body parts are used for witchcraft. The hunt for albinos increases when there is an upcoming election. Why? Because there is a demand for good luck charms and some running for elective office feel that it will help them win the election. It sounds bizarre and perversive, but this is often the fate of albinos in Tabora and Tanzania. Since 2000 at least 75 albinos have been killed. Many more have been maimed and injured.
“This violation of human rights cannot continue,” the PCHS seniors assert in their video which now can be found on the internet at https://goo.gl/ImwlKL. Peninsula Catholic seniors got on-line and did research.
“The kids really grabbed hold of it and came up with a number of ideas to raise money,” said Sue Wilkinson, theology chair at Peninsula Catholic.
The video, which lasts 2 minutes and 43 seconds, was created by Francesca Reimer. The seniors wrote prayers which were said for the entire student body for morning prayer, for grace at lunch and the afternoon dismissal prayer.
On Oct. 22 the students of the five grades at PCHS (there is the 8th grade in addition to the four high school grades) celebrated Tag Day in which they wore colors of either green, blue, yellow, red and white according to their class. The money raised will be sent to the Diocese as part of the World Mission Sunday collection taken up in most parishes.